Why is this girl so obsessed with me?

if you guys ever had sex that is probably the root of the problem. reguardless, she probably still has feelings for you and doesnt want to lose you completely so shes staying around because she wants to be friends. obviously your not interested in a friendship with her so you need to tell her that asap. you also said that she already has problems so maybe while you guys were dating you were really nice to her and stuff and she still feels like your the only person who has ever cared about her and maybe thats why she wont let go?? you need to tell her in a nice and polite way that your not interested in any kind of relationship with her and that she needs to quit calling you coming over ect. tell her what you guys had was nice while it lasted but its over now. dont end it on a bad note though…say something like you think its time that she moves on and that you know theyre are plenty of other guys out there for her. if she starts crying though, as mean as it sounds, get up and walk away. you got to let her know that you cant be there for her anymore. also after you talk with her if she seems more unstable than normal let your school conseler know so they can talk to her. if she still doesnt get the message call the police and get a restraining order on her, hopfully she will get the message then lol I’ve never understood how a girl can be so emotionally attached to a guy…if someone doesnt like me anymore I shrug it off and move on because obviously it wasnt meant to be…I just think its so crazy to here stories about obsessive girls lol I could never even imagine myself being like that lol

If she’s making you feel uncomfortable, I think that you have to be up front with her about it. By not saying anything at all you’re sending a message that you’re fine with her behavior, which isn’t okay. Although it’s not intentional, you’re kind of leading her on by pretending to be fine with it.

Now I’m not saying to be immature and call her names, but saying something like I’m not really comfortable spending so much time together, and I think that we should stop being friends. would be just fine. This way you’re letting her know what you’re thinking, without being seriously offensive. This will work a lot better in your favor if you’re nice about it.

Now.. if you feel like she may be a danger to herself, call her parents or an emergency service. They WILL help her and make sure that she’s safe.

Take care.