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Why is she rejecting me now ?

Well I have a friend and we have a great relationship, and she twice asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend by text message and I said that was a subject to do in front of her and not by text message. Because I thought it could be a friend of hers to saying that, and if I said yes, she would know that I liked her. I few days later I said that I loved her. And suddenly, now she ignores me and does not seem to be the same girl I knew.And also we use to say that sometimes “I love you” and she said that to me too. But now shes says its diferent because she feels that is diferent… So what should I do ? Should I ignore her too for at least one week or one month and then say “Hi how are you doing” or wait until she says that she misses me or something like that?

Or Maybe she’s figuring me out on how much I want her in my life , how much I love her… ?

Regards.

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Answer #1

Well, if asking you out through text message was the first time you found out about her liking you, than it may feel weird for her to say I love you if she doesnt think you mean it as much as her if you havnt talked too her about the text messages in person. You know what I mean? And she could be ignoring becuase she might feel a little imarassed because she might think that when she asked you out through text that you rejected her.

Answer #2

Hmm so I should go and talk with her about those text messages right ? And tell her why I didn’t’ said yes to her…

You might be correct.

Answer #3

Yeah that sounds like a good idea. Good luck(:

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