Why is it so common for girls my age to be having sex already??

dont ever worry about what people are doing…just do your own thing…if your not 100% percent ready for having a boyfriend or anything like that then dont…it doesnt matter if your 14 or 34…everyone knows when they are ready for certain steps in life…taking these steps because other people say its a good idea usually just causes problems and might leave you feeling bad inside…so just take things one day at a time and dont worry about what those around you are doing.

I agree with nando3138. you need to do what is good for you and don’t worry about what other people are doing which I know can be very hard to do. when the time is right things will fall into place for you don’t worry. :)

because there are girls our age thinking they fell in love with a dude who is a few years older then them… so they think they are in lovee and then the dudes has sex with them and then just dumps the girl and the the girl gets into this depreesed mode because there is a saying the one you lose it to you remeber forever so now the girl remembers the dude who used her for sex and then left her…

people just curious I guess I started having sex at 14 & im 16 now but thats good for you you should wait to have sex for sure & it dont make you a loser to never kissed a boy your only 14 now if you were like 17 saying that then thats different yea wait til you find a good guy and a good relationship then kiss and wait to have sex

Its literally everything around them, and the younger you are the less mature you are about your feelings. I was walking throught the bottom of my town and seen a boy and a girl like 7 or 8 say if you go out with me I’ll show you my willy I was geet wtf!

Sex is everywhere! I mean young kids can easily have access to pornography and pictures. Sex has now become the norm, and everyone is doing it, so a lot of it is pressure from those around them, also hormones and curiousity and horniness. Also a lot of kids think that they are in love, lots of guys use the line I love you to have sex. But you should wait for sex, it isnt osmething casual, your first time will be the time you remember the most. Most my firends who lost their virginities early now regret it, theyre now in their 20s and have TRULY fallen in love and wishing that they could have given their virginities to their present fiancees. If you give it up early, there will be mcuh chance for you to regret, but if you wait, you wont regret it, find a guy you like, or love, develop a good relationship and see where that leads you guys:} tust me, you wont regret it.

I agree with black barbie16! =] see, I guess peopel now adays are getting curiuos- maybe some do it because they think it will make them older.. let others gain respect for them OR OR some juss really want a kid and even thou the boy wudnt be a good one. they still would keep the kid at least and raise it… or they were dumb at the moment and got pressured.. there are many reasons…, if you ask others you will hear many reasons of why. but hell no! you aint no loser… no body’s a loser. sex isnt a game… its when YOU are emotionally and physically ready to do it- its weird to start at a young age, but as long as you know what your gettin your self into– then its fine, I suppose!!

and your right, it gives you a good reputation to wait.. juss yupp- keep waiting till the right boy and when your ready and watever your parents recommened… you know? hope it helped! :) im like that btw.. waitintg to be in a good strong relation at the right time lol so dont worry!!