Why is a 7th grader obsessed with me?

What is the freaking deal with this kid? I’m a sophomore and this chick is absolutely obsessed with me! I’m the worst role model in the world no lie and she’s like in love with me! It’s really ridiculous. It all started in august last year, she was at my friends house because of her little sister. And she texted me so I replied. BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER. Ever sense she’s followed me around like a little puppy dog. How do I tell her to leave me alone without making her end her life? That’s what she told me. And I quote “there’s no point in living without you Haley. You fix everything and make me happy” Wtf? How the hell do I do that? Yeah sure I chill with her every now and then to get away from my dad but gosh dand cayla!

 I really need some space now. I'm trying to grow up and I just can't with her constantly dragging me back down. I got kicked out of my house and stuff because I went to her house without telling my dad and he accused me of going somewhere else and she didnt back me up. It was bull. And now she just ughhh!!! 
I thought it was cute at first. Like the first month I was all aweee I got a lil sis! now I'm just like go away please? Help?!?!?! How do I make her back off? I even got texting taken away and now she calls me everyday about 3-10 times a day. most of the time just to say hi. Please help me. I NEED her to go away but no matter what I say she keeps coming back! Help me? Thanks sooo much...
Answer #1

hey. you’re gorgeous. haha who wouldn’t chase you? just kidding. lol. but just be straight and tell her how you feel. dont beat around the bush shawty.

Answer #2

wow, sounds pretty full on. I think you’ve gotta be relly carful with this girl and not cut her off completely. I mean she really looks up to you and it would rerlly hurt her if you just told her to get lost and never talked to her again.

having said that her behaviour does sound a little obsessive and certainly is not healthy… I think you should just let her know that, you’re going through a tough time or busy time or something and that you can’t spend much time with her. then when she calls or txts don’t reply unless you wanna… she won’t stop in one day, it’s gotta be a gradual thing if you don’t wanna hurt her feelings.

Answer #3

person above , good advice..! …u should prob tell her you love her like a sister or summin … because if you love her like a sister nuffin can ever happen…so she should get the message without you being too horrible to her … hope that helped ??? xx

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