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Why don't peoples like me?
<> this might be a little long<>. seriously it seem like everyone at my school is out to get me. it like I got a target on my back. when I walk thru the halls I see many eyes on me. like damn have ya never seen a mix guy in a black hoody -.-. peoples alway mistake me for being a bad person. but on the flip side I can be one of the nicest person you will ever meet. I like to stay anti-social at school. but of course there alway a few good peoples there that am cool with. I don’t know if peoples out to get me for whatever odds reason. or is they trying to figure me out. am the type of person no one know about. of course it don’t help that am alway wearing a black hoody. also since I barly smile. but it just seem like no one like me there. 95% of the time when another student say something to me. they trying to mock me or say something else. of course I don’t response back. like today I was walking down the hall. and I walked pass a group of peoples and I heard someone say something about me. I just don’t see why peoples don’t like me. if they don’t know me. any idea why?
THEY DONT LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE ANTI SOCIAL! being anti social is rude and mean. its not the worst thing you can do to people, but it brings other people down, it makes them feel like you think being social is a bad thing. they are social people and they think it’s good, since your anti social that means you think being social is bad. so that means you think what they do is bad. so bascially that makes them think that you dont like them since you dont talk to them. its not that they hate you, most people probally dont even know who you are since your so anti social. but the ones who know who you are see that you are bascially saying there bad for being social beacuse you are anti social. your actions speak louder then words, and body language is also language. so when you just ignore them, it makes them feel like you dont want to get to know them or think that you dont like them. do you understand? would you like a person that you didnt know? would you like a person that you only saw but never talked to? you could like them for there look, but not for there personality if you never talked to them.its bad to be anti social and its bad to assume everyone hates you. dont say everyone hates you unless they told you that they hated you. some people are mean beacuse they can be. thats the only reason. dont try to figure out more reason why people are mean, they are just mean because they can be. just ignore mean people, if a mean person physcially abuses you, then get them in trouble and use self defence. dont let them get away with that. but if they say mean words, just ignore it. THe best thing to do is make friends, talk to anyone, just to keep your mind off bad things, and to make you happy. if they say something mean then go talk to someone else.
You just need to start talking to people just bring out some random conversation and let people know things you might have on your mind. Get a job, that will really give you people skills, especially if you work at a Toys are Us! If you talk to people and you become friends with them then it will be easier to get to noe their friends and then people wont talk bad about you or judge you because they will already noe you… Think about it. And oh try not to put an “s” at the end of words such as peoples because people is the plural way to say person and its kind of really annoying
There is nothing wrong with you. But let me ask you a question, do you live in a run down place like dirty and full of crime. The way you describe it, it seems like that. But anyways, I’m assuming your in highschool, there all like that there so people think there better than others. a lot of people like that have problems at home and takes it out on people who may be on lower social rankings then they are. You are doing the right thing by ignoring them. I know kids who if someone said one thing outta place to them, they’d go and start a fight…or even worse like school shootings.
They don’t like you because you go against what they see as right. Judgmental people in my opinion, nothing better to do with themselves than to criticize others.
Just be friendly with people. You can’t get everyone to like you, you can only like others. Stick close to those friends that you do have. You obviously don’t want to hang out with people like this? You shouldn’t listen to what they say, the people saying stuff like that are about as low as the meaning of the word they are saying to you.
A lot of people like to judge, they can’t help it, you can’t help it. Its just them, honestly if people spent less time judging and more time evaluating then people won’t be as mean like the saying goes, don’t judge a book by its cover :)
kids can be really judgement these days.. its a cruel world we live in as I seem it sometimes..
have you ever tried to approach the people that say these things about you? you could always try to be a more assertive.
but also if seem very drab an unusual to me…maybe try to be a little more confident in your self…try switching up your style..give your self a style instead of just black hoodys all the time…liven yourself up a bit. dont be so predictable…
and try your hardest to get along with em… I can tell you right now things dont get much better when your outta school. there are still asses an iggnorant people in the world that just seem to never grow up. its best you learn that now..so you know how to prepare yourself.
I am in NJROTC. it the same down there. am cool with couples of peoples down there
dude you should join a team that way you make more friends
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