Why doesnt he make any effort?

Some guys loves the thrill and excitement about feeling attracted to someone and specially when they feel a mutual chemestry. They could very well try to get together with the girl who seems to make them all wild, and they put a lot of effort into making the girl finally agree to become partners. Then it happens… the sudden planning and all the effort has brought it’s fruit… but there’s one great mistake that the guys make when they try to get together with the girl who made their head spin. They forgot to think about what comes after, and suddenly feels like the thrill is gone cause they don’t know what to do now… They need another goal but they can’t really think of it.

It sounds heartless to say it that bluntly I know, but I’ve been this stupid too and it’s been a learning experience for me. I am sorry bout the girl I made feel like I had wasted her time, but I learned to be more thoughtful about what my girlfriend is to expect of me… the simple faqt that I just stay myself as I were before we started going out.

You need to get your boyfriend to realize this too if he, like me, had done this mistake…

Yes of cause it’s also a possibility that he lost interest, of cause it could be that now he got you, he will start to look somewhere new to get a new thrill n’ a new goal. I certainly hope not, cause it isn’t fair on you. Try talk with him about it… could be he needs that push in the right direction to get him started going again.

Normally this is not an advice I’d give cause I think it’s a negative approach that could go really badly. But you could try considering if you should continue to go out with him, or maybe just break up with him and then after a short while give him hints you still like him, if he still do cares about you he’ll take the bait and get a goal about getting back together with you… BUT AS I SAID! It could very well go wrong, so don’t try it unless you’re really considering if it’s a relationship worth continuing the way it goes…

So firstly try get him to realize that a waltz on roses requires two people, and right now you feel like you’re missing your dancing partner.

Hope it was of any help to you, and good luck