why does she keep me hanging?

I have posted a few questions so far so maybe you would of read them and this would make more sense to you. But I’ve been seeing this girl for a while, not going out, more casual than anything. But there was a time when we were so in love and she got rid of her boyfriend so many times for me. But recently she has been so cold. And secretive about stuff. Just genarelly showing signs she’s not interested. But the txt’s still come through. She still txt’s like she has always done. I just want to know why? Why does she tell me one thing and do something completley different. She says she is so annoyed at her boyfriend and just wants to be alone cause she has a lot of stuff on her mind, but before she would tell me everything and still have a laugh. Now none of that. Just txt’s there that keep me thinking. She is a very clever girl, ill give her that. So if anyone knows why she keeps me hanging?

Answer #1

She keeps you hanging, because you keep letting her. If she still hasnt completely left her boyfriend for you, she isnt going to. You keep hanging on to all her worthless words, when you are just someone she runs back to whenever things go bad between her & her boyfriend. Do you like being second best, because thats all your ever going to be. If she cant make up her mind, then maybe you need to be the strong one, and make the decision for her…like getting out!

Answer #2

Sadly, I think the truth of the matter is that she is trying to stop whatever is going on between the two of you, whether it is a sexual relationship, or just friends. She may feel that she is in a sense cheating on her boyfriend by confiding her feelings about matters to you. She probably just doesn’t have the courage to come right out and tell you that.

Answer #3

honestly mate I’ve read your other posts aswell this girl seems really cold and it isnt fair you bein a dickhead in the first place shaggin her behind anufa lads back so you are an as hole for that it asholes like you what fck our girls and then try take em and finish em in two weeks I suggest you tell her boyfriend straight away and dont do crap like this again because one day lads like you will get caught with this little slag you say you love and get what you both deserve . she is a lil mug and your a bigger mug and want slappin for lettin a girl cheat on her man you lad are a disgrace mate and a waste ov space…set things right and get your own girl you pusy

Answer #4

Your profile states that you prefer not to say whether you are in a relationship, and you prefer not to say what your sexual orientation is. . If you are similarly “coy” about such matters when interacting with this girl, I am not surprised that she “… keeps you hanging on …”. . She is probably still trying to figure out which way you prefer to “swing”. .

– Best wishes - Majikthise. . .

Answer #5

she might be in love with you…

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