Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Parents & Family Questions

Why does my mum neglect me?

Hello my name is lauren im 13 and me and my mother really do hate each other.

It all started when my mum met a new man called bruce. He has a son called conner. Ever since they come round every friday, sataday, and even sunday a family day. his son reallly is being nasty calling me a spoiled biatch and a s;ut and everything like he wishes I was never born he says its to me everyday unfront of his dad and my mum. If I ever say anything I get really badly told of. My mum keeps saying if I dont be nice I will be thrown out. Im only 13. And that conner will have my room .

Next thing we were all shopping. My mom brought conner 5 bags full of stuff and I did not get anythiing. Im starting to fell wtf! One day conner it me and if left a scab and bruise. My mum found it and said were it came from. I told the truth and said it was from conner. She said I better stop lying to her. I am being neglacted thats what it feels like.

Can you help me anyone? I feel like if I go to heven will anyone care about me or even notice im even gone?x

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

Hi Lauren, how old is Connor? I know its tough but maybe he doesn’t like this situation and is lashing out at you because your an easy target. He probably doesn’t want his dad going out with anyone. In saying that he shouldn’t be doing what he’s doing. Your going through exactly what he’s going through. You need to speak to either your mother or Bruse on their own. If your mam is taking sides with Connor chances are that Bruce will try and take you under his wing. Try explain exactly what is happening, that you don’t want these rows but its making you miserable. Good Luck

Answer #2

Don’t feel like that sometimes moms can do things worser, I know the feeling when somebody dosen’t love you. Sit down, when her huspand and conner isn’t around and have a sirius talk wit her! Let her know your feelings about everything, sometimes we hide things but it’s better to show them so people around us can understand and know how to trea us. Let her know everything. If you mom does act in reason she will understand you. If you brother keeps hitting you then I would suggest talking to a school cauncelor so you can get it all out and meaby she/he can help you out on having that conversation whit your mom. Also a famely member that you trust can also help you out!

GOOD LUCK!:)

More Like This
Advisor

Parents & Family

Parenting, Marriage, Childcare

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Proud Mummy

Parenting, Community, Moms

Advisor

Vicki The Midwife

Pregnancy Care, Midwifery Services, Parenting Support

Advisor

CPS Lawyers | ALL Trial Lawyers

Legal Services, Family Law, Juvenile Law

Advisor

Lovemère

Maternity Clothes, Nursing Bras, Pregnancy Fashion

Advisor

Global Surrogacy

Surrogacy Services, Fertility Clinics, International Agencies