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Why does my boyfriend get upset that my mom hurts me (emotionally)

It’s like he’s mad at me about it? And now he’s not really talking to me … he says he’s tired of me always getting upset my her and he says I don’t listen to what he says (he is studying for a test). That I listen to other people - but I say it’s just for more input. And he’s doesn’t know how much longer he can keep his sanity. He loves me and he cares, but he says I won’t change and not let her effect me. He says I’m not trying hard enough. HELP!

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Answer #1

he probably doesnt like or want to see you being or getting hurt and if your emotionally hurt by your mother that could make him upset because he might want you to do something about it so it doesnt happen you might also always tell him how she hurts you and he might want you to sort it out so he doesnt have to hear you getting hurt all the time if your having problems with your mum, you really need to talk to her about it, and tell her shes hurting you emotonally but obviouly what shes says is going to affect you, she is your mother after all you cant really just forget or block out what your mother does/says but again, try talking to her and sort your problems out theres also nothing wrong with listening to other peoples thoughts and opinions but ultimatly, you make up your own mind and decions those people cant make it up for you they can influence your ecision, but its always good to get other opinions on things

Answer #2

he just might be pi$$ed that your ma (the one whos ment to love you and care for you no matter what) is hurting you. just make the decisionon your own, sit down with him and have a long talk and explain everything?

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