I'm in pain.
My real name is Peter. I still believe that this is a great site, where people like me get solace from their sorrow.
I can simply describe my life for the last five months. HELL. I thank God though that He has managed to bring me this far.
This is just like what I went through.
I met a girl and I dated her for three good years until January this year. If I tell you the whole story how it culminated to this far you would cry because its really long and sad. In short, after things were so well, I had even started organising how we could get married, what happened is this.
I used to get romours about her been seen with a guy around. When I asked her about it, she vehemently denied it, even blamed me why I was not trusting her. It made me feel so guilty why I could not trust her. The more I tried consolling myself that it was all romours, In my mind there was this strong feeling that something was wrong.
The last week before it all happened, I fell sich terribly. I went to hospital, nothing was seen to be wrong with me but I was sick. In short, on a particular Sunday, I just woke up feeling SO bad. I tried calling her but the phone was picked by her sister. It was early in the morning. The sister told me that she had gone out early in the morning but did not know where she had gone to. My heart was restless for a reason I do not know and I found myself going out. Since I knew where the other guy lived, something kept on telling me to go and check at his place. Believe me, when I got there, (It is a single room adding up as the sitting room and the bedroom) I got the two literally naked on the bed. Immediately my sickness evaporated.
All the time before the girl could tell me how much she loved me, even the previous day she did tell me. When I found them, this is where she said she stopped loving me long time ago. I was devastated. I still told her that I love her right there before the other guy. But it was the MOST DIFFICULT MOMENT OF MY LIFE.
The big question is that it is really hard to me to move on because I still love her.
Anyway I decided to just wait and see what God has in store 4 me in my life. I think it will be really hard for me to trust another girl again, leave alone falling in love.
Now, my question is this, why do people who once proffessed undying love can be so cruel like this? Why would someone break another person's heart so cruely.
I am sure I have told you just briefly. If I told you the whole of it, my story would have moved anybody to tears! I almost lost my life. God bless you all.
To those guys out there who are suffereing in the hands of their ex's, Trust in God. He will give you the best love you'd always be happy about.
I met this amazing guy unorothdox way but,still we started as friends but right away I knew there was something there I felt such a connection I never felt before. he is the most honest,truthful guy ever.he's also in the army about to get sent over to afganstain.but during thanksgiving on webcam took me by complete surprise said when he got back he was going to propose to me. the connection we have I know its real I was suppose to see him during christmas but everything just exploded and recently he said he wants nothing to do with me.I know he has to focus on his job,but I have no form of communication with him and I'm so worried about him. and I know its the real thing its not some fling,some crush this is real love but,I'm so hurt and I miss him so much. I didn't get a chance to say goodbye and everyday that goes by I miss him more and more.
Because when you love someone... in order to love them... you have to put yourself in a position to be hurt.
I understand how it is, because I'm going through the exact same thing right now. I fell in love with someone who has liked me for 2 years. I finally gave her a chance. And at then she dumped me and started fooling with another guy.
I'm currently broken, and in so much pain I can't eat, sleep... all I can do is think about her.
But something you got to remember is that if you've fallen in love once then you can do it again... and next time it'll be all more special because you will know it. You'll fight harder to keep it.
thats kinda funny
its just that I kinda had the same thing
I loved him and trusted him and he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend some day
but then after that
he ignored me whenever I tried contacting him. it hurt. then a week later he got a girlfriend
trust me when I say it is a waste of tears because there is always a better guy, a real prince charming
smile because you deserve to
I'm Having The Same Story Exept The romours...I dont think that will be there :(
My Story Is A Little different...
romours About she is married 1 and half years back :(
She says its not true and she lives alone away from her parents...I dont know whom to trust...
I love her her a lot bro...
hm. good question
I think because the one you love, you depend on them and trust them with all your heart
and it is horrible if the one you love betrays you
and im sorry your upset. I really am
but if you feel so sad, something it had to be something that once made you really happy
Because your giving everything you have to the person you love but then they change their minds & your left empty heart broken & confused
You just have to remember that if they put you thru all that they dont desirve you.
One day youll find the right person (:
We always think that we don't need anyone... Then we find some one that sort of cares... then we open up... and are crushed... it's part of life...It sucks, but there was no guarantee when you were born that your life was going to be easy..
I know how you feel, too because I'm in love and it's unrequited and everytime I think about him it hurts so much, but its like I'm addicted to this pain because he's hurt me so much but I keep crawling back for more and I still love him.
A guy is a guy you cant let these bastards ruin your life.
Yes its gunna hurt but if you setup for it youll get over it
Why love someone thats hurt you so much?
Its not worth our time or smiles (:
Be strong stay postive :D
because love is so powerful and that you literally put blood,sweat and tears into something or someone that you expect it to be perfect and u never see the downside, and when you dont see what you want to see ir breaks you apart
Ha Ha!! this was good. but the thing is... we never broke up. it's hard to explain. I really don't know how. otherwise I would have.
It hurts until you find the absolute right one.
Trust me =)
It doesn't hurt until someone has broken your heart!
I agree :( I get hurt cause of love sometimes :( :(
If it didn't hurt so bad it wasn't worth it.
awww. I feel your pain its going to be okay
Aww thankiess :D
I liked yours too (:
thank you to
iu agree with pwincess
I like that answer^