Why does he act like this???

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 6 months. we are in love, and 14. yeah yeah yeah were young, but who cares we don’t:) anyways, we have done everything but se* and he understands that I am not ready and he is not pressuring me at all. the other night I brought up the topic that we dont spend enough time together anymore and when I ask him to hangout he says hes busy. with soccer, friends, and family vacations. okay, if you really wanted to be with me, then make time for me! he says I make to big of a deal of things and that one thing goes wrong and the world ends. okay yes, I do make a big deal about things, but I care. when he doesnt like something I do, he tells me, but im not aloud to tell him??? It really starting to make me mad how I have to try to be happy. I jsut dont get it. hes beeen acting all weird and being kind of distant. hes done this before when we dont hangout for awhile…I jsut dont know what to do…do I ignore it? go along with it? treat him the way hes treating me? pleasee help meee! asap. thanks guys.