Why? Does guys hurt girls?

Why do guys take girls virginity, or be in a relationship with girls and claim they love them then turn around an hurt them by cheating or breaking up? I know girls hurt guys somtimes to but why does guys do that instead of just being truthful from the start?

Answer #1

Depends on the type of guy you meet. Unfortunately there will be some (thank goodness only a few morons), guys or girls who can put on their best behaviour when dating someone and once they get bored, it’s ‘cya, thanks for the ride’ and leave the other person heart-broken…If you do date a d*ckhead, next time stay clear of the same personality and character and hopefully you will find someone who cares about you and treat you like a princess.

Leeannhope18, you will be surprised, there are more decent, faithful and loving guys out there then there are dipsh*ts. There are guys out there who do look after girlfriends and give up their spare time with their mates or sleeping hours when they need to collect their girlfriends from the pubs and clubs even though they have to work the next day (weekend) because they do not want their girlfriends to catch a taxi home so late at night on her own.

Answer #2

Well, I’ve come to the conlcusion that there are three types of guys. Those who are faithful and loving forever (very RARE!), those who are faithful and love you at first, but when their feelings change they are too scared to hurt you, so they don’t tell you, and the typical jackass who uses girl after girl to proudly boast to everyone about how many girls he’s been with. I’ve dealt with my handful of typical jackasses, and for a while it really hurt, but eventually you realize that they are not worth the pain. In fact, it is so much fun to laugh about how pathetic they are. Recently I’ve had the guy who really loved me for a while, and then fell out of love. He gave us a fair shot because he felt he could make his feelings come back, but in the end it wasn’t possible. No matter which type of guy breaks your heart it is always going to hurt. The most we can hope for is to move on and find the “very rare” guy that I mentioned first.

Answer #3

No not all guys are like that. I know guys who wouldn’t lay a finger on a girl or hurt her in any emotional way. SOme guys are total animals and wouldn’t know what to do with good girl. And some girls are too stupid to know a good guy when they see one.

Answer #4

Not all guys are like that. You just have to search hard for the guys who don’t do that. I’m sure there’s one out there for you. I used to think the same thing until I met my boyfriend of 3 years. He showed me that there are some good guys still out there in the world.

Answer #5

Seems like I’m surrounded by animals..:( No, we shouldn’t insult animals like that

Answer #6

Because guys are animals hands down they are triggered by lust unike girls who base their feelings on their emotions :(

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