Why do women want to give birth?

Ok, so I have a question and would like someone to maybe explain it to me.

Why would any woman actually want to go through birth?

I mean since being on this site I’ve actually seen some people describing it and it looks sore, disgusting and just seems down right degrading to me. Also I watched a reality program about it the other day and the woman was screaming while in labour. I actually find it a bit nauseous to be honest.

I know you get a child from it, but really is it that worth it? I mean after that you have a screaming baby in the house and most likely an child who won’t even appreciate you for the first 18 years of its life.

So why would you want to do it and especially more than once? I mean after reading and seeing all that I never want children.

I’m not trying to judge, I just don’t understand it.

Answer #1

because the very best part of being a woman is giving brith,it’s like giving life ,like our god, hi give us our lives.

Answer #2

I hear ya, crazy. I’m still trying to figure that one out myself.

I guess for most women they probably don’t think about the pain and torture of giving birth.( Plus, if you get enough drugs I hear it isn’t too bad. ) They’re just thinking about how much they want a family with the person they love, and once a baby is ‘in’ there, it’s gotta come out. lol

Even though this is a pretty bad comparison, think of giving birth to be like getting a tattoo. You really want the tattoo, but you know it’s going to be painful. As you’re getting the tattoo and it starts to hurt pretty bad, you’re thinking ‘Why did I ever want this? I’m never doing this again!!’ Then, after it’s all over, you have the most amazing tattoo and you’re glad you did it. You totally forget about what the pain was like and in your mind it wasn’t as bad as you made it out to be at the time. You start planning your next one.

If you don’t want children, more power to you. People can live full and happy lives without ‘ankle biters’. I don’t have kids, and I don’t know if I ever will, but I know that as an old lady looking back on her life, I’d be disappointed to of never had the experience. Good or bad.

Answer #3

A woman wants to give birth because it’s the most beautiful thing in the world. Women who have children in their late to early 40’s risk the chance of having a child with many developmental and mental problems. Being a mother is the most amazing and important job a woman can ever be given. The whole 9 months of ups and downs, the emotional rollercoaster and the painful delivery is all worth it in the end…and once you feel that little human moving inside of you, it makes your heart sink. Most women fall in love with their babies the second they’re concieved, hell I love all of my unborn children already. Women who find it utterly disgusting just aren’t ready yet.

Answer #4

I agree. It’s disgusting. I am pregnant and was told that I could have a c-section due to my epilepsy(tiredness+stress=fit) and then the doctor said there was no need for one. I don’t want anyone diving around in there it’s sick and always will be. People say “it’s natural, everybody does it” or “Don’t be so immature”. I’m not being immature I just don’t want people there that I haven’t invited!! It’s foul!! I’d rather be sliced open by c-section any day!!

Answer #5

No woman wants to go through it, they what whats at the end of it, a beautiful baby :) they think its worth all the pain they go through :)

Answer #6

Women;just be grateful that you can create a Miracle ,Men don’t have that opportunity, and yes of course you have the right to decide to have childern but if more Women thought like you do the population would stop abruptly,and Fruitylicious,you might wan’t to consider having children in your 30’s your eggs will start to be hazardous to your health,Men on the other hand can help create children all their lives,wake up!.

Answer #7

they dont want to go through birth, they want that bit to get over and done with. but its so they have a child from their own blood to love. and they think birth is worth it.

Answer #8

whoa whoa whoa fruitylicious the question was “Why would any woman actually want to go through birth?” and I explain my reasons of WHY woman want to go through it..Aint no “LETURE” ..Its simply an opinion of WHY woman want to go through IT. SO Read The ANWSER CORRECT. like if I ever said that make them “less worthy human beings”.. I did not mention THAT WOMAN SHOULD DO THIS OR THAT, that would of been A LETURE. GOsh Hop OFF, you have your OWN opinion so dont judge others.

Answer #9

Just knowing you brought a life into this world with the help of god and knowing you responsible for a life and that you accomplished the most important thing in life it makes you feel like so happy that you have this lil baby that loves you and will always love you and it just phenomenal.

Answer #10

Because unlike some people WOMAN want to have a family! and babies are blessing from God. It brings happiness and joy even though, they are terrible the first couple of months. The pain in giving birth is just for that day, after that there no more harsh pain. IT IS ALL WORTH IT!!

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