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KK Along time ago my grandmother had called me fat. -_- I know im not fat because I calculated my BMI I am almost right inbetween! But ever since then my ex-bff called me fat WHEN WE WERE FRIENDS but that was grade six. But even in middle school, - im in highschool now and its still going. Not only do I hear them behind my back but they say it to my face too! This year it has been more then usual. Apperently I have a huge ass according to everyone! And well if anyone wants you could think of ways to lose weight I dont know. All I know is that it hurts when people say those things and its getting tiring because before at first I took offensive, but then I just ignored it, now its happen so often it hurts! :( please help me!
I'm the same way, I have extremely large bones, especially my hips, so it makes me look very wide..and fat, I of course don't like it, and my mother calls me fat all the time.
But I just basically decided to ignore all the losers in my school who think I'm heavy or anything. I'm completely average and I know that. I can't stand my school, luckily I graduate this year.
also, if your worried about finding a boy to love you, do nottt worry about that. I have an amazingly gorgeous boyfriend and he lovesss my body. I may not be that skinny and I have a fat a$s but he loves me that way. you have to realize there are people out there who will love your body for what it is, I never thought I'd find anyone either, but I did.. and I'm sure you will too.
It really hurts me too if someone thinks I'm heavy or fat or talks about me too behind my back, but I just have to think in my head.. their loss, I'm a great person and friend.. and if that's the person they are, they don't deserve to be my friend.
To be honest, when this happened to me... I left school :/ Maybe you could move schools? If the whole school/year is saying it then I don't know what to say.
I would suggest asking them why they say it, or telling a teacher, but honestly neither of those things work lol. They are just idiots.
Hey, Don't let comments like those bring you down. I think everyone has been called fat at least one point in their life. You just have to keep moving forward. Be happy with yourself, and know that the only opinion that matters, is yours :] - Advice Girl, (:
they're JEALOUS of your skinny body! just try to think of comebacks if it's really bothering you and countinue to ignore themm :))
