I'm sick and tired of people talking behind my back and lieing to me!!! How can I tell people to stop while being nice!!! PLease HeLp!!!
It's best to just not hang out with those type of people. There's no need to be nice when telling them to stop, they deserve to be yelled at. They're immature and need to be shown that. So when you ask them, don't be nice. Yell all you want, they deserve it. Sometimes you can't really change liars, in that case it's best to just ignore. Whatever they say, can't hurt you. No blood, no bruises, it doesn't hurt. Be the bigger person and step away, don't give them something to talk about.
Aw, I know what its like too, the best thing to do is just ignore it and let them say negative things, don't care what other people think, it happens to everyone. They're obviously jealous of you and they try to bring you down to their level. If you see this happening, you could confront the person and simply say, "Can you please stop lieing! you can say it really loud to, too embarress them and they wont do it again, hope this helped :)
There is always people who will be talking about you, lies or not lies, at some point people will talk about you.
For example in school many people talk about me, they make up stuff, they talk e.c.t, and the best thing to do is ignore it, not pay attencion.
Knowing that what they all are saying is not true, and it does not bother me.
Sounds like youre hanging out with the wrong kind of people!!
If it's not your friends that are doing it, just ignore them, you cant change them
You can say this "if you wanna talk crap about me at least say it to my face" or just ignore it