Why do parents like to make their kids mad?

Why do parents like to get their kids mad. Why dont they just let you go were ever you want with out telling you to do something before!!! They pist me off!

Answer #1

oh my. let me just tell you, I totally understand what you’re going through right now. I’m living with my parents at the moment and it sucks. I go to college in idaho, but I’m on this weird schedule where I go only two out of three semesters. so the off semester I have to spend at home. it sucks. my parents treat me like a 12 year old when I’m a very responsible 21 year old. so, suffice it to say, I know how you feel. parents can be brutal.

here’s some things you can do to make things better at home.

-always let your parents know when you’re going out, who with, where to, and when you’ll be back. tell them you’ll call if something changes. your parents will appreciate you trying to show a responsible side.

-help around the house without being asked. do the dishes one day, do a load of laundry, make your bed in the morning for a week…you get the idea. the rents will really appreciate this. trust me.

-if you tell you’re parents you’re going to do something, do it.

-if you’re parents ask you to do something, do it. don’t say “I’ll do it later!” parents can’t stand this…it makes them feel like they’re losing all control over you.

hope this helps. know that you’re not alone, and that parents are so hard on you because they care. sick, isn’t it?!?

Answer #2

it is so sick that parents care about you and yet sometimes they treat you like crap and yet they care? k does that really make sense? they do a lot of things for you and you may do a lot of things for them but they should really let you discover your life and let you do stuff!!! !!! !!! if you go to a school you should stat there for as long as you can in a day! find a computer sit down and do what you like to do or listen to your music or you can take a nap in your library it is quiet enough just don’t forget to go home!!! lucky for me my parents go out a lot because they are in plays!! and then I get to watch them!! so yeah good luck tell your mom and dad to go see a movie!

Answer #3

They’re teaching you responsibility. If they let you go wherever you’d like whenever you’d like you would not grow into an responsible adult. It builds character. They don’t enjoy making you upset. Trust me it will all become clear when you get older and you can actually afford a nice home, car, boat etc.. because you are a resposible steward of your time money and resources. “By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.” (Confucius)

Answer #4

anyone will tell you thats its because they care abt you and somehow it is but I dont get it either dont worry. hey I have a question for you. why do you talk in caps all the time? because its ridiculously annoying, is the button broken or do you have issues? (no offense)

Answer #5

because they love you and they are building character.

Answer #6

um there trying t0 care!!

Answer #7

They are people just like you - far from perfect, but they try - Growing up is very difficult—for both you and your parents. They remember a little bundle of joy that they held and nurtured as a baby and now they see a budding adult. These days, children face things and know about things that their parents would never have imagined at the same age. The teenagers of today look older, act older and want to be older than their counterparts did just 20 years ago. It is the desire of all parents for their children grow up in the way that they should go (loving, caring, respectful, and being of good solid character). It is necessary that you truly understand that your parents have your best interests at heart. They will withhold privileges, set limits, and raise you to the best of their ability (neither they nor you are perfect), but be Thankful - They Care - many, many, many don’t. Ask them for guidance and seek to understand what truly motivates their decisions. One of the best ways to prove your maturity and prove that you are ready for more trust is to be respectful of your parent’s wishes and accept their guidance. Learn how to communicate love, honor, and respect to each other - be thankful for them, they won’t always be around.

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