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Why do married guys always go for younger single girls when they are suppose to be with their wife and kids.it is so wrong I really want to know why they do this.
Not that I agree with the action, but I unfortunately agree with the prior poster. Most men don't cheat for sexual reasons. Believe it or not, a lot of guys tough it through those periods where sex is low because they at least tell themselves that they love their wife, or because of their own sense of honor.
Men tend to cheat because their partner has become significantly less receptive to them, their needs, and their wants. It's one thing for time to be more strained once children come into the picture, but it's no excuse for being cold and uncaring(or creating the appearance of being uncaring) towards one's spouse. Men actually tend to be as dependent, and sometimes more dependent, emotionally on their relationships as women. When they're treated like a secondary priority, like a luxury, a convenience, consistently over an extended period of time, they become bitter, and look for other sources of support and love. This is why in side relationship, it generally starts out as merely deep conversations. It can take months and even years for the sexual part of a side-relationship to develop, but if things are lacking in the home environment, it's almost inevitable.
You call them cheating scum, just like I used to, but you should look at the many factors leading up to this before judging. Is it wrong? Hell ya. Would I ever do it? I hope not, and work constantly with my love to ensure that the environment we live in is satisfactory, if not exceptional, for the both of us. But before you go to blame it all on him(or her in a near-equal amount of cases), look to see if his partner and family are fulfilling his needs. Chances are, his home life sucks, and he's found a temporary escape.
Guys cheat because their relationship has become too stifling and too boring for comfort.
At an instinctive level, them going for young, single girls is like having a change in one's love life. We all have a this liking to have something novel or new, don't we?
It's so easy for us to brand them as cheating scum - being in their shoes is the best way to deal with them.
Think about this: had his wife taken the time to be a lot more interesting - be it in looks, in bed or in how she shows her affections to him - her hubby wouldn't be looking around for fresh flesh to savor... yeah, he may run around but if the wife is someone so unforgettable and unique he'd realize it's pointless for him to ditch his wife for a younger chick 'because his wife couldn't love like no other.
Before we judge others, let us look into their hearts first. We judge them 'because in some way we are like them and don't like what we see...
hahahaha fefe really you had to post this?
because they are cheating scum
