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Im 15yr old male never hit puberty and am in love with this amazing girl ,but I often watch gay porn and jerk a bit to it ,is it wrong ? Am I gay ?
Before you get the predictable jerks that come on here and say ''ya dude, you're gay and gross'', let me put some real perspective on this...
If you get off to it, there is nothing wrong in the slightest. It's a matter of what makes you happy. Does that make you gay? Not necessarily. It's possible that you're bisexual, or at least bicurious, but watching gay porn doesn't make you flat out gay.
The fact is that you have a prostate that can be a massively pleasurable sex spot. Most guys aren't willing to go through the anal play to get there. By getting turned on by gay porn, your body might just be telling you that it needs some anal stimulation. Again, there is nothing wrong with that.
If your girlfriend is not open minded about all of that, you might just keep the bi-ness to yourself. Some girls get a bit freaked by that idea. I can tell you that my husband is bi, and I embrace that fully. He's not attracted to men per se, but the idea of another man coming into our sex life isn't crazy to him. We're happily married, and neither one of our bisexualities have ever bee an issue.
In short, continue having fun and watching what you like. What matters most is that you're happy.
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Like you said you are in love with a girl. But that doesnt mean you arent a bit bicurious or just flat out bi sexual. Have you thought about talking to your girlfriend about this. She might be more comfortable about you watching gay porn than watch some other naked girl other than her. Ever thought of that? I hope this is some help... <3 Kayla
Heaven is 100% correct. Watching gay porn certainly doesn't make you gay. It probably just means that you are curious or it's just a turn on for you. And if it works, then it works. Nothing wrong with it.
some girls who are straight watch lesbian porn so I guess that's the same as your case. you might just be bicurious or you might just like the visuals in gay porn.
Maybe you're bi-sexual?
