Why do I mainly attract nerds?

Jazlovestoskate said it, girly. You shouldn’t base relationships off of “hottness”. That has nothing to do with it, and even though it’s nice having that “hotty with a six pack” it’s not all there is that goes into a relationship. Personality plays a big part in it.

Maybe the guy doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you because you flirt with everyone? Having five guys “wrapped around your finger”, IMO, is not something to be proud of. Sit back, relax. You’re 13 - grow up a little and then worry about relationships.

maybe its because your aproaching the situation wrong your basically saying your vain and only want a hot boyfreind all the realy hot guys are out of your leauge and the nice guys who look normal must be nerds because there not hot enough for you not to mention your only a 13 year old kid you need to think about personality a relationship isnt based on looks, its based a lot on personality unless both people are so vain and dumb they dont care and just want to look hot all the time just because soemone is hot does NOT mean they are a match for you there are heaps of guys who share common instrests with you but if you dont stop being vain, you will put yourself in a little box and only let other ‘’hot”” vain guys into it