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Why do I feel this way about my friend?

Some days I love my bff, we laugh, make stupid perverted jokes like we normally do. But then some days I hate her. Like the way she talks and thinks she’s better than everyone else I guess you could say. She acts SO fake. It gets me mad. Then when I’m mad at her, or hate her, she messages me on a social site, and says something wrong between us, then I say I know, then were bff again. Then it starts over. Why do I feel this way? (Please don’t say: sit down and talk to her, cause I won’t!)

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Answer #1

Same with me I always have small fights with my friend, Courtney, and then she will ask what is wrong and I tell her and she says that didn’t happen and we are friends again but if you have known her for more the 5 years it is because since you have known her so long and grown close to her you just can’t let her go and possible tell each others secrets and you could be scared you won’t have a best friend anymore! Thanks!

Answer #2

Well that is just the way she is, so you are just going to have to accept that. I mean she is your best friend, not your wife. You don’t have to deal with her 24/7 for the rest of your life, so just calm down and don’t talk to her whenever you don’t feel like it.

Answer #3

Well, friends fight. And you probably don’t actually hate her, you’re just mad at her when you feel that way.

Answer #4

Give her a taste of her own medicine somedays you should act obnoxious to her and see how she takes it. heeheehee

Answer #5

Well I’m in a situation except my male friend is the fake one. One night after I was mad with him, he texted me and asked me a question. I answered with a snappy answer and he said the sweetest thing. I don’t suggest you keep going back, seperation can be the best thing. We haven’t talked very much and even though he is my best friend, I know that I need space. We joke about having sex and we’ve been called the old married couple for our loud arguments. You can be like me and just ignore her for a while or you can just try to ignore the fakeness.

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