why do guys break up with you after you have sex for thefirst tim and been going out for forever with them and they were never like that before or they want to have sex with you all the time after they have sex with you for the first time...I just dont understand?
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as with most things in life you just can't throw out a generalization and expect it to stick.
I would have to say to you miss lady that if you had this happen to you once, chalk it up to experience and be a little bit more careful with whom you share yourself with. if it seem to be a recurring trend then maybe you should re-evaluate the kind of guy you are going out with, because they don't seem to have your best interest at heart.
I've had some hard luck in love and had come to the conclusion that most women were just evil. after having a talk with my father one day he posed the question as to what was the common denominator with all the girls I've had that experience in, and I came to realize it was more me than them, I kind of gravitated to the kind of girl that would do such things. after making a few conscious resolution in my head about the women I wanted to date I've had a lot more success in meeting more "quality" women.
so I would beg you to do the same. hope this helps.
dont stress to much, I do this on a regular basis. if boys arent good in bed then then are not worth having. but everyone has a point of view about it. one guy I sexed dumped me because apparently I wasnt flexible enough for him,. dont worry I found another guy two days later :) he makes me happy and we have sex everyday, you will find the right guy who doesnt just f*** you for the sake of it, one day :)
Some guys get scared that a relationship is starting , some just want the sex and nothing else, and some want to try other girls out. Me and my ex boyfriend went out for three months after we did it, then he found "her" the guy I'm seeing now is like " I just want to be with you". We had sex ( made love) and I'm waiting to see if he still wants to be with me.
not all guys do that the ones that do were just interested in using you for sex or perhaps they thought the sex was bad and thought they could get better sex from someone else in both cases the boy wasnt worth it anyway
Because they got what they were looking for and can now move on?
