why do boys treat girls like this ?

hi im 14, so is my boyfriend.. we started going on out on saturday but started flirting before.. so I’ve fallen for him, and yesterday he got My friend to tel me hes dumped me because hes with 4other girls so basically he was cheating but he said hes really really sorry and wants to give us another chance because his live is fked up atm.. I dont no what to do. :/ xx

Answer #1

because the boys who do this are immature and dont know what they want.. in the end theyre actually very lonely even if they have many girls becasuse its better to have one person you care about a lot rather than 100 that you only use and that dont care for you in the end. you can only continue to get treated this way if you allow it. giving him another chance might not be a good idea. its not even as if he made one mistake with one person and is willing to change but he cheated with 4 girls. obviously if he cared it would have hit him that he needs to stop after 1 or 2 most. you’re basically telling him what he did is ok and if he does it again you will be used to it.

Answer #2

but I still love him but I dont want to :/ because when I get boyfriends I serioously love them to bits and let them do watever- wish I wasnt like that with boys :/x

Answer #3

its really you’re choice taylor because its your own life and its your own heart which may potentially be broken… what we just want to advise is that you deserve someone who will take care of you and love you and never cheat on you. what’s a relationship without trust right? if you believe that your boyfriend now is someone who will do these things to you then go ahead. but if not, its just not worth the heartache. good luck and I wish you the best :)

Answer #4

he’s already betrayed your trust. he may do it again you know. you deserve someone who’ll treat you right. leave him.

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