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why did I not bleed

while I was having sex with boyfriend I did not bleed he try to put it in but it really hurt.It when’t in and all a little but then it was red for a while does that mean my cherry was about to break.Now there is a little hole there and I really need to know if I am still a virgin could it be possiable that it broke while doing a split for cheerleading or when I was a kid when the bike seat fell off and I did not notice that it fell and I sat on the metal and smash my you know what on it and hit my hymen and broke it if that is the case I did not bleed at all.All it did was hurt while I pee and burn so please answer this I need help.

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Answer #1

Wow, it sounds like you might have “popped your cherry” way before the boyfriend, but either way, it doesn’t always bleed. I didn’t bleed either. “Popping your cherry” though only refers to breaking the hymen, so if you did that while doing other things as a kid, it doesn’t count as losing your virginity. It counts if a penis went inside you, and it sounds like it did, so no, you’re no longer a virgin. And yeah the guy hurts when he penetrates you for the first time, it’s normal. That’s only because you’re not used to it, but after a while you’ll stretch down there until it feels comfortable.

Answer #2

HEY I HAD SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND TWO DAYS AGO FOR THE FIRST TIME. HE HAS A REALLY BIG PENIS AND I WAS STILL A VIRGIN BUT IT DID NOT BLEED EITHER.

Answer #3

burning when you pee could be a sign of a STI (sexually transmitted infection) so get it checked with your doctor and it sould go away with medication

Answer #4

burning when you pee could be a sign of a STI (sexually transmitted infection) so get it checked with your doctor and it sould go away with medication

Answer #5

Bleeding the first time isn’t always the case. I lost my virginity not that long ago and it did not bleed. But it did hurt though!!! lol…The burning might of been caused by a friction burn or something and if it continues get it checked.

Answer #6

Well said! Lol yeah its ok if u don’t bleed the first time cuz neither did until a couple of more times later. But that burning while you pee must rally REALLY burn. U should go get that checked out cuz I don’t think its supposed to burn like that.

Answer #7

hey u know what the same happened to me,after i lost my virginity, i did not bleed at all, n yet the same it hurt a lot.. n when i tried to pee also, n it was burning…

Answer #8

Not all women are born with a hymen. The hymen is tissue left over from the vagina not seperating completely. Plus they are easily torn through other activities such as sports, masturbation and hygenic care. So bleeding is not an indication of virginity. Virginty is a spiritual attribute - not a physical one. It depends on your belief. In Western culture (america) the popular belief is that if a penis penetrates the vagina then the woman is no longer a virgin. In other cultures just touching a woman deflowers her.

Answer #9

The very first time I had sex I didn’t bleed or have a burning sensation..but what I can say I had was a throbing pain in my bottom area all womens bodys react to different things..some people take it as a joke but these are serious questions an concerns that us women have after having sex my very first time I was very sensitive…but if your having pains like that you should go an get checked out just for you health an safety…

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