Why can't some people accept the truth?

We only want to help you realize your flaws, like you are with your “friend.”

I know I have flaws and I can accept them but it seems like you can’t stop being a witch.

Good then don’t ask anymore questions. This website IS called funadvice.

I was trying to get advice not told that I’m a nazi and that I’m closed minded and rude.

I don’t need help. I’m not going to continue taking this.

Whats wrong with liking those things?

you don’t know this person and she keeps coming back to me so it’s not like I want to hang out with her. I try to help but it’s because she wont leave me alone, I told her I didn’t want to be her friend anymore.

Can someone help with what? The only problem you’ve given us to help with is that you have a serious problem minding your own business and letting people be who they want to be. I’m sure I like a lot of things that you would find annoying or immature or pointless. Does that mean you should be butting into my life too?

No one ever asked you to be the moral guide for this person, and no one asked you to try and hammer your own likes and interest onto them. If someone does things that bother you this much, don’t hang around them.

well you may think that but I actually go out of my way to help people most of the time but she wont take my help and I’m tired of it.

well she’s 14 and acts like a child and not a teenager, she doesn’t seem interested in anything normal teenage girls are interested in, for example shopping, or looking at boys.

Honestly, you’ve presented yourself here as such a rude and close-minded person, if I were you, I would be very grateful that someone were so interested in wanting to be my friend.

You are a Nazi. Not all girls want to shop or look at boys. That is so stupid and arrogant. Don’t try “helping” her. Trust me, you are the one who needs help.

Ha if you didnt like the question she asked then you shouldnt have answered it. You guys are the rude ones. I’m pretty sure she is confused.

Ok, I’d like to throw my advice out there. I may sound a bit immature to you, but I’m 21 and I still love to watch anime (Japanese cartoons) and Disney channel and the classic Disney movies. Does that make me a child? And technically, at 14 you are still a child. Just because you have the word teen tacked onto the end of your age doesnt automatically make you a grownup. When I was 14 I HATED to shop. I absolutely dispised it (probly because I wasnt allowed to have my own style and my mom picked out all of my clothes.) I liked to dress in guy clothes cause they were a lot more comfortable. I wasnt really into wanting a boyfriend cause I was too busy enjoying my childhood (playing outside, having sleepovers, ect.) Yes even as a teenager you are still a child. My advice to you is to sit down and talk to her about it if it bothers you that much. Dont try to change her into what you want her to be. That’s harmful to her and she will grow up not knowing who she is or what she really likes. I hope I helped and didn’t come of as being rude.