Why can't I get over him?

I had a guy friend who is no longer a friend because things weren’t working out. It was a really an unhealthy friendship because he was going off to college, he wanted more than a friendship (sex), and he says I freak out or get mad to much. I did apologize to him about getting mad and freaking out. Only to see if we could work things out but he doesn’t want to so its impossible to be just friends again. Its been almost a month to just trying to get over him. But I find myself overly obsessing at night about him. During the day I have no issues and I’m happy but at night I start thinking about him. Almost every night I find myself crying over old memories of him. Then I start having dreams that are a little different setting but have the same meaning. In the dream somewhere he is there and when I try coming up to talk to him he just turns his head and ignores me or walks away. This dream happens almost every night and its just getting old. I want to get over him and I’m fine during the day but at night I just can’t get my mind off of him. Please help

Answer #1

Why can’t you get over him? Honey, you have not recieved closure…go ahead, and move on..the best way to get over a guy, is to hop on to the next better thing…good luck.. xx. superfresh.

Answer #2

At night things tend to pile up on me too. A month isn’t that long, give it time. Make sure you have a full active day maybe exercise that way when you go to bed you will be too tired to sit and cry or even think.

Answer #3

Thank you for letting me know that I’m not the only one and there are other people that are feeling the same way as I do. I wish you the best of luck also!

Answer #4

Hey, this happens to me A LOT. Long story short, I liked this guy a lot, he loved me, but because of my insecurities, I never told him how I felt, and he just stopped talking to me. During the day, just like you, I’m perfectly fine, but at night, I’m messed up. ha, just the other night I was crying cause I didn’t know why he just stopped talking to me and I still don’t know. I wish I could’ve told him how I felt.
I can’t help thinking about him, but I eventually fall asleep. If you think he might talk to you, try calling or texting him and telling him how you feel. I ended up sending a message to the guy I was talking to, but he hasn’t responded and I don’t think he will, but oh well. It’s hard, but the only thing you can do is try and try real hard to forget…or talking to him. Good luck, and you might have better luck than me.

XOXO, Sillist

Answer #5

Would you want to be with someone who only wants you for sex? That alone would make me come to my senses, and get over him!

Answer #6

Send him and e-mail of a letter aobut the way you feel and how this is. Tell him what you think you can doto solveit.

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