Why don't I get aroused when he fingers me?

Hey guys, So I’ve been hooking up with this guy for a couple of weeks now and the other day he decided to finger me. I was totally ok with it but had never had it done before. He tried for about 10 min but it was uncomfortable so we stopped. Then last time we were together he tried again and it didnt hurt this time but I still didnt (for lack of a better word) get aroused by it… I know I’ve been really stressed out lately so I dont know if that has anything to do with my problem or what?? I guess my question is.. is this normal? Has this happened to anyone else??

Thanks, Katie :)

Answer #1

well stress could definantly be a possibility as to why you arent getting aroused. But I don’t know if he has tried this yet, but if he stimulates your clit more so than just finger you it may help out a lot. Maybe use his tongue or his fingers or even both, and you might become highly aroused lol…try it out if you havent yet. GL!

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