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Ok, so I really don't fit in at school with the other girls. I have about two best friends and one regular friend but that is about it. I always try to talk with the other girls at luch and everything but they kinda just leave me out, not on purpose but because they would rather talk to the other people. I luv to read, does that make me kinda like a nerd or somthing? No matter what I do to talk with the other girls it dies not work. I nevr get invited to parties or anything, and one of my friends jenny told me she was going to this girl's party and I kinda just smiled and said great. The 'birthday' person somtimes talks with me and she invited almost evry girl at my table except me. Help!!! I am really confused...
Why would you Care. The people in school are the people you grow from. Some times you take on some of their bad habits, some of their good habits, you become one of those people which stereotypes you and kills off your own individuality. Why not carefully pick your friends and make something of your self over time.
Friends are over rated. If they don't want to talk to you maybe they aren't worth YOUR time.
I fit in well at my school. Unfortunately every one that was popular in 2000 was a drug addict in this small town in oklahoma. I did a lot of things Im not proud of and my record with the law shows it. I wish I woulda been a lonely nerd. I would have met someone worth hanging out with in college when I was older,have more freedom, and it's more fun.
I think is like fine to have the friends you have you are like me. well... I have manny friends but I started off like that and things got better. At least you know that those are real friends and not like them all. Sonner you will see how other people likre you is just that meaby they you know have their own crew and they are scared to aprach you.
Also be yourself, it's way better to have friends for who you are then having to wake up and have to put on a role for you friends, be who you are and know that who like's you foryourself is your real friend.
Sometimes is not about having manny friends is just havin ghte true one to be there fo you any moment in your life that goes downhill. GOOD LUCK!:)
I really have no idea how to help you becuase thats thats same thing that happens to me.Maybe you should do some school activities or something like band or sports.Ever since I joined band I have so many more friends and its like one big giant family.And sports team you get closer to people,And heck maybe you should just invite people to go places with you and get to know people more and then maybe you should invite yourself to other things too
I think you must try to talk with other to find weather you do something wrong that make other feel you are like a stanger. once I have the same similar with you . I have solve it by a long long time to contuct the people around me . Believe yourself and live more confident! You are lovely girl!
well ok. I wear make up, I dress like evryone else does, I TRy talking to them, I really do. I have been thinking of maybe joining cheerleading...maybe that would help. how old are u , soldierd, lol? haha thx for the advice maybe I will funmail u. but how did you get popular and everything?
I really cant tell you why..but like me everyone wants to be my friend. But maybe if you just try talkinq to one person. then maybe trying to talk to the rest of them maybe that will help or if you join a event or club you can find more people who are just like you.!
in school the girls are like almost the sam with me ... it just because some of them are obnoxious and too full of themselves, dont think nothin of it, I read a lot oo and the girls im talkin about they are the troublemakers in class its better to be urself
Same thing with me I actually have more guy friends than girls because I dont feel like I belong try hanging out with some more guys they're easier to fit in with :) hope eveything gets better
well all the guys are wierd excpet a fee so I can forget about that LOL. haha they really are
