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Why are they doing this? I thought they were my Friends?

Okay, so my one friend Gabby has to decided to completely ignore me. We’re best friends! I went to a restaurant for lunch, during lunch at school, came back, and she completely ignores me. I was like… This is wierd. I went up to Gabby, tapped her hair to talk to her, because she wouldn’t even look at me, and she SCREAMS. what is going on? I texted her, and was like, what was that for?! She said, you pulled my headphone out of my ear, duh. I was like, Im sorry? She never answered. Now, my other friend Avery won’t stop hanging with Gabby, now Avery won’t even look at me during class. What is going on? I texted Gabby last night, Said I was sorry for whatever it was that I had done, and I asked if she could tell me what I’d done, so I could fix it. Gabby says, “Figure it out”. I said, what? Gabby: “ You have a freaking brain, don’t you? Figure it out.” I told my one friend about it, and that I asked for her advice. Later at lunch that day, I got a text from gabby, “ So, you decided to spread bad stuff about us, huh?” I said, “ NO! I’m just confused, and I wanted her imput!” What am I supposed to do? Help!?!

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Answer #1

Well, I think that you should just carry on, they’re not worth it! If karma serves you well (if you believe in that) then you have done nothing wrong and will get good karma. What goes around comes around, they’ll be the ones with the problem!

Just be in the ‘good zone’ where you aren’t seeming that you need them. Keep your other friends close and if you keep positive, you’ll attract other friends, better more loyal ones. Good luck :)

Answer #2

okay same here with this shizz…this is what I did I just left them alone dont talk to them NOTHING! because THAT just proves they are FAKE! I wasted my time chillin with them then I realized there is sooo much other pl to talk to and we have boyfriends too so talk to him ♥ all I know is if yhu show that yhu don’t care then they probably come back to yhu…but being a smart person about it…dont b their friends ever again because like I sed before..THEY JUST FAKE! :)

Answer #3

text her and ask her why she is doing that but dont talk about her behind her back

Answer #4

Its probably a rumor… you should probably call her on the phone and ask if you can talk about whatever it is or write it in a letter. But if she’s your best friend she’s probably hurt about whatever it is right now but she will come around sooner or later.. good luck!

Answer #5

I would never say anything behind her back! She’s my close friend! I’ve been her BFF since grade 2! I couldn’t have possibly messed with a guy that she’s had a crush on, because I have a boyfriend, and I love him! <3 I wouldn’t mess with her guy, anytime. Avery?! I doubt it, but you never know, I just don’t know what to do!?

Answer #6

Have you said anything about her behind her back? If not then someone probably made up that you been talking about her. Unless you’ve messed aqround with a guy she has a crush on or someone she’s dated. Or maybe you friend avery just doesn’t want you two to be cool..maybe she’s the one behind it all.

Answer #7

u know screw them..let me tell you this..girls who claim to be my best friends done that shi to me..don’t kiss a ..don’t talk to them and start hanging out with other girls and don’t tell them what had happened ( some of them are meaner then you think, they love an interesting friend fight, and would do anything to try to bring more drama so keep it on the DL)I am sure sooner or later they’ll come back to u!!

Answer #8

well who did you go 2 the reasturaunt with? could be rumors or her assuming…

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