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Why are my boyfriend and one of my best friends texting?

Yesterday I was at dq with a few friends and my boyfriend didn’t know I was with one of them and he called her phone.. I thought it was because he saw me with her and got confused so I went outside to see if he was there and wasn’t so I called him and he said that he called her cause he was telling her about a friends party and then I found out they have been talking since her and her boyfriend broke up and they talk to each other about their problems and then she asked him if there were any parties yesterday and I ended up getting really mad and I didn’t tell her I knew but she kept lying about what she was doing that night and then she kept telling me I shouldn’t go back to him. I feel like this is really suspicious and when I asked why he didn’t tell me he said because she told him not to but wouldn’t you still tell your girlfriend? After that my friend was acting really nervous and I just want to know what else I haven’t been told. Do you think they are seeing each other?

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Answer #1

Boyfriend and best friend talking isn’t bad. Boyfriend and best friend talking for quite some time while neither says anything to you? Bad. And not okay.

It sounds, from your post, like you guys broke up or are maybe on a break? If that’s the case, it could be like erind303 said above, that maybe they’re seeing eachother behind your back? Especially if this chick is telling you to not get back with him and telling him to not tell you that they’re talking. Or maybe because they’ve been talking behind your back, they developed feelings for one another and don’t know how to tell you?

Either way, it’s messed up and immature on both their parts. You need to catch your girl in a lie and call her out on it. See what she has to say for herself. Ask her point blank if anything is going on that you should know about. Put her on the spot and tell her you know that the two of the have been talking. Who knows? It could turn out to be something harmless.

And if they ARE seeing each other behind your back? Ditch them both. You don’t need disrespectful people like that in your life.

Answer #2

so are you and your boyfriend broken up?

if so then they could possibly be dating and not want you to know. if that is true than what a friend don’t you think? one of my rules is, don’t date a friends ex. it just causes to much tension.

Answer #3

I don’t know all the details but it really depends on what they are talking about. I text with my girlfriends sisters fairly often and in a way it just makes us closer. Im not after her sisters or anything, its just good to be close to the people close to your significant other as long as there isn’t any actual cheating I wouldn’t worry, but that may be hard to determine.

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