Why are all girls so insecure?

Umm all most every girl (including me) have an insecurity AND think they’re fat 95% of girls I know say OH IM FAT really if people were that insecure just wear a sign. But really why do girls say im to fat? (I may say it but im not insecure because I can exercise it off)

Answer #1

I think its all of the models that we see I mean they are perfect and make us feel that all woman should look that way.

Answer #2

Their insecure. Other teenage girls look better than them and all the guys are all over them. People make fun of them so they think bad about themselves.

hope I helped, xoxo :)

Answer #3

most girls I know actually arent’ insecure about their “fat” it’s more like, ewww I wish my eyes were a different color… or something stupid like that. but yes, they are just fishing for compliments.

Answer #4

it cus you see like all these movies where the girls are made to look real pretty and skinny and you just think god I wish I was like that, then back in the real world you just think that you really fat, or your hairs crap and just things like that, and I think another main reason is because of guy most girls think that they want skiiny girls , but I’ve heard they like curvy , not fat tho but curcy girls so yeah! xxx

Answer #5

I agree, but I have also known girls who told me that they don’t really think they are fat, they told me that when they are hanging out with their girlfriends and the conversation turns to weight, they just agree that they think that they think they are fat, because they don’t want the girl that really thinks she is fat to feel alone. I am proud to say I don’t think I am fat and don’t say I am fat. When it comes to situations like that I just stay quiet. 18, 5’4, and 110 pounds and proud of it!

Answer #6

um. you already answered your own question. girls complain that they’re fat BECAUSE they are insecure.

Answer #7

yeah, what tinatodder4 said.. and they’re fishing for compliments.

Answer #8

Not all girls are like that, it’s just a mental preference, it’s not always the same with most girls. Some girls will say their fat, when their not, but they will say it just to hear someone else’s opinion (usually they want a boy to tell them how they feel) so they can get feedback. Some girls say their fat so they can motivate themselves to get in the shape that they want. It’s not always the fact that they are insecure, it’s just a few different reasons why we use certain words around certain people to hear a certain set of words to tell if a guy/girl likes that certain someone, for example, if a girl wants to know if she looks good to a guy without straightly asking him, she would say “I’m fat.” and hope that he would say “No your not, you look fine.” then she would have the idea that she looks good to him, and she could push it further by debating his response by saying “No I am not, I am so fat look at this!” and that would entice the boy to say something more romantic like “Your a beautiful girl, and your not fat.” or some guys would ignore it, then that could give the girl a better idea weather he likes her or not. Has been doing these things for quite a while now

I hope my advice helps, please rate and comment on my page if it does. Thanks!

<3 Rob

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