Why am I so boring?

I feel so empty, like I have nothing inside. I never say much, let alone anything important. I feel like im really boring, and I just shouldnt say anythng at all I also dont have like any hobbies because I cant do anything right…like I mean excel in a certain area how can I stop being so…plain?ordinary?

Answer #1

waoo you are so informative about your self waoo I don’t belive you are boring

Answer #2

you’re not boring. :o

Answer #3

I don’t know

Answer #4

speak out or do somthing different..hang out with friends and laugh…if there is nothing to laugh about then do somthing funny if you dont no what to do that is funny just like tell a joke or somthing..

Answer #5

You should write a book, not cause your boring though but because you sound creative. you shouldnt have expectations for urself by the way. If you think positivly, you will be happier, and you wont seem boring to urself. You sound like an interesting person with a lot in your mind that you should put down on paper. I use to feel the same way, so I got a diary. I felt way better. Then I wrote a short story cause I enjoyed writing, then I wasnt as depressed anymore and I figured that I just didnt care what others thought about me anymore. so I started talking to people and things led to other things and I built a confidence. But dont feel discouraged if you find it hard, cause then you created a goal for urself that one day you will succeed. Trust me and start with a diary, and you will be surprised where it brings u. Best of luck :)

Answer #6

You’re not ordinary. Everyone is different. You are like Bella in Twilight. Just because at the beginning she hadn’t found her place didn’t mean she didn’t have one. try some new things and see if you like them. And just embrace who you are and how you are. Hope this helps!

Answer #7

Wow, you’re not very nice to yourself are you?

First of all, and I know you dont see this, but you’re saying things that (I want to put this nicely) but well things that dont make sense. Lets take your profile. You write about yourself in a creative, succinct, interesting way, and you describe yourself quite a bit. And then you say you dont describe yourself well. But you’ve just done that!

You dont say much. Well, that is something you can change. Try talking some more. First, try looking up. I mean when you’re interacting with people, dont avoid eye contact. Smile. You’re already pretty. Smiling will only emphasize that. Now, talk to people. Anyone, everyone. You interact with a lot of people. When you go shopping, teachers, people in your school, your family. Say something. Dont underestimate the importance of being nice to people. I’ve had horrible lousy days, and just hearing ‘feel better’ from the lady at the pharmacy cheered me up. You dont have to be oh so inspirational and oh so wise to make an impact on someone. You can make a difference just by being alive and looking up. Notice when people have changed their hairs, notice when they’re wearing something nice, notice when they’re not feeling very well. People like being seen. They’ll start to see you if you see them.

You dont have hobbies because you dont excel? Ok, first of all, you havent done everything in the world. So you have no idea what you’re good at. I’m guessing you’re probably good at more things than you think. Secondly, you dont need to excel to have a hobby. Star gazing is a hobby. I dont think it takes talent to look at the sky. I’m interested in mythology, so I read. I also collect quotes. I collect cute pictures. I love postsecret. Doesnt take talent to have a hobby. And you can learn so much online. You might want to check out this site http://www.stumbleupon.com/.

Here’s a list of hobbies http://www.notsoboringlife.com/list-of-hobbies/ http://www.listofhobbies.net/

See if you find anything interesting.

Consider volunteering somewhere. All you need to volunteer is basically to be alive and be somewhat functioning. You can go volunteer at an old folks home and just listen. You dont need to be entertaining or anything. Just listening is a good talent to have. Most people are so involved in their own heads, that its hard for them to listen. Practice really listening to people. Go volunteer at an animal shelter or the zoo, if that’s what you’re interested in. You can even volunteer at home or online.

This will provide you with volunteer opportunities based on your interests http://www.volunteermatch.org/

You’re only as plain and ordinary as you see yourself in your head. But if you really want to find something interesting to do, well go do it. It would be especially helpful if you joined a club or organization where you could interact with people with similar interests.

oh, and consider talking to your counselor for an evaluation. you sound a little depressed.

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