Why am I never acting like myself ?

I have like only 2 CLOSE friends which im not afraid to wear what I like. but they go to different schools. but when im at my school, I dont wear my purity ring because im scared they’ll laugh at me, and I say some mean/judgmental things about others just to make them laugh and for them to like me. I HATE who im becoming and I know that I need to change this, but I really dont know how. So how can I be myself at school and stop acting like a b**ch ? Thank youu!

Answer #1

you need to be really friendly and compliment people and wear a smile and maybe people will like u. dont be mean, nobody likes mean people, they probably just talk behind your back. say nice stuff.

Answer #2

Courtney,that also happened to me once.All what you can do is,show them who you really are,doing sport is always a good way to begin..They’ll see you differently,and start to like you.ANd dont talk to those who are popular or you dont even know.They may be jelous of you,then they start critizise you in a other way..You’re true friends will come,everybody is not the same,there are always people out there who feel confident by you..If they talk around your back,show them you can ignore them and move on with your life.You dont need that kind of friends.=)

Answer #3

just live life, and don’t care what people think about you. be yourself. and if people talk crap about you? just thank them for making you be the center of their life

Answer #4

you dont know the people at my school. if I said something nice about someone ‘unpopular’ they would laugh at me and say im pathetic. thats the problem, no one ever grows up here.

Answer #5

instead of assaulting someone.

Try saying–oh I like that girls shirt today. or her hair looks really healthy.

if you say something good about them..it’ll stop the hate through different groups at school. and people wont have anything bad to say about you.

like (oh, shes always talking shit..) it’ll change to. (oh, shes a sweetheart. shes cool.)

Answer #6

Try to find people that are more like u

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