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why am I feelling like this?

I been dating my girlfried for over 2 years, things are great, I love her to death, and vise versa, But latley I been getting mad if I cant hang with her. She came back from school for a month, and starting next semester im barley going to see her, because shee said she denst feel like driving 45min every weekend. So I been wanting to spend as much time with her as possable. Now a friend of mine whos a girl has been talking to me a lot more, she comes to see me every now and then at work, or whatever. But I been imaging me doin stuff with her, or anything, and I don’t know why that is happening, Like I feel that I want to cheat once, just once, but I know thats wrong, and I dont want to do it, and ii feel that im going to mess up one day and cheat one day by mistake. I love my girl to death I really do, and I been stayin away from girls so I wouldnt have anything like this happen, but its getting harder because my friend keeps coming to see me, and talking to me onlone. All I want to know is why am I geting this feeling to cheat once, I dont like this feeling, I dont ever want to cheat or nuthing at all on my girlfriend or nuthing, why am I having this feeling.?

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Answer #1

well that sucks…but why doesnt she want to go see you?? 45 min isnt much

Answer #2

wow well that is something… well I think you are feeling this because you want attention. since you are not getting it from your girlfriend. Talk to your girl and figure out something. because come on 45 minutes isnt much. but dont cheat on her thats the worst you can do.

Answer #3

WELL SHE LIKES YOU… AND YOU MUST BE CUTE FOR GIRLS TO GO SEE YOU… JUST TALK TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND IM PRETTY SURE THAT ONCE YOU TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL SHE WILL UNDERSTAND YOU AND WILL DO HER BEST TO GO SEE YOU MORE OFTEN.

Answer #4

OH OK WELL JUST TALK TO HER BUT DONT CHEAT ON HER… AND TELL YOUR OTHER GIRL FRIEND TO STOP GOING TO VISIT YOU because YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND. DOES YOUR GIRL KNOW SOME OTHER GIRL HAS BEEN GOING TO SEE YOU?

Answer #5

start by telling her that you miss her and that you feel like shes pushing you away. and then she’ll be like oh no no and then you’ll be like well come see me so these girls can stop bothering me because they are all over me and that you dont like that…=) lol

Answer #6

you like her.

You can see your self with her.

So;; that means you have to make a very important dession, pick one. Because- you seem to like them both very muchh,

Answer #7

whatever you do DONT cheat on her. nothing would ever be the same between you two again. Dont get mad if you cant see her. It’ll make the next time you do 209838764x more amazing.

your feeling that way because you dont see her much. but when you think in the back of your head, doesnt she make you happier than anyone else?

and that other chick…make your decision..if you love your girl so much tell the other chick ta backkk up.

Answer #8

It sounds like you’re just lonely - it’s normal.

What sets you apart from other guys (or girls) is that you know it’s wrong and you don’t actually want to go through with it - I commend you for that

Do you have male friends who you could hang out with more often? Usually just something to keep your mind busy will help alleviate these thoughts…make plans with the guys to do something.

Answer #9

maybe you can go see your girlfriend sice she doesnt want to drive to c u

Answer #10

your welcome

Answer #11

is she in college?

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