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Who should I move with?

So im thinking about getin my own aparmtnet or sumthin. And I been talkin wit my ex again and now he wants to get a place wit me. So I don’t know if I should or not cause when I was wit him he always wanted my money. And I got dis job now so I don’t know if he just want to get a place wit me so he could move outta his crib and use me for my money again. So I don’t know if I should get a place wit him or not. Cause if I do I wont have a chance to get an apartment wit my other friends who I was planning on gettina place wit. I still luv my ex though. And this is like my only chance to get back wit him if I want.

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Answer #1

Are you a glutten for punishment, or just plain desperate? If you still love him, then why arent you two together? Hes an ex for a reason! Why go down the same road that didnt work the first time? Do you think its going to be different the second time around or what, because if you do, your only setting yourself up for a HUGE disappointment if you think he has changed. Learn from past mistakes, dont repeat them! You wont go anywhere if you keep going backwards in life!

Answer #2

NO NO AND NO. Your kidding me right, you are thinking of getting an apartment with you exboyfriend. Remember you are ex’s for a reason. Moving in together will only cause drama and arguments. What are you going to do when he brings other girls home (you know it’s going to happen) What are you going to do when he doesn’t pay his half of the bills, eats all your food, snoops through your things, get’s jealous, trys to control you. etc.

Answer #3

well, about the apartment: go for it! it’ll give you a chance to be independent; that’s the best feeling anyone could have. as for your ex moving in, it’s not a good idea. I know you said that he loves you, but it just sounds like he’s with you just for the money. I know it’s hard, but you need to find someone who doesn’t take advantage of you. ‘cause that’s what he’s doing. they are better guys out there; don’t fall for him again.

Answer #4

based on past experience, dont let him move in.

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