Should I believe my best friend or boyfriend?

ok…well my best friend said she saw my boyfriend holding hands with one of his ex’s…and I want to beleive her I really do…it’s just I talked to my boyfriend last night and he said he would killhimself before he would ever cheat on me…and he sounded like he really wasn’t cheating on me…so is he? my best friend doesn’t like my boyfriend anyway…but I really want to beleive…it’s just so hard when he tells me he’s nit…I don’t know who to beleive…it’s only right tobeleive my best friend right? or shoild I beleive my boyfriend? is he really cheating on me? I don’t know what to do please help!

Answer #1

Well I think you should just watch your boyfriend carefully. Just because your best friend said he did that, it doesn’t mean it’s true, you know? but he could be lieing as well. Really, you would have to have proof first before you can really accuse him of cheating. So if I were you, I’d just watch him carefully to see if he’s being flirty with other girls, or if he’s showing signs of cheating.

Answer #2

could you try talking to his ex? or ask one of the ex’s close friends about it?

Answer #3

Your young and this is another part of growing up. Your best friend may not like him, but she may think you could do better because she doesn’t like him. This in turn could give her reasons (in her mind) to make up stories to get the two of you to break up. If there is no trust in your relationship then there is no point in being in it. Trust one another until they give you a reason not to. If a majority of people are informing you of his deceiving actions then you have good reason to be suspicious.

My advice is talk to your best friend. Tell her you appreciate her friendship greatly and her looking out to see you don’t get hurt. But, please leave it to you and your boyfriend to deal with the problems in your relationship.

Good Luck

Answer #4

chicks before d*cks

Answer #5

will just ask your boy friend are you cheating on me thats what I would do and if he was I would dump him

Answer #6

already told you wutz poppin.

Answer #7

cicks before dicks

Answer #8

Of course your boyfriend is going to deny it. Do what I did…ask the ex! I’d want the truth, and would do whatever I needed to get it!

I’ve always chosen my girlfriends over my boyfriend.(and for good reason) Sometimes girlfriends know/see something we dont see in who we are dating. She obviously has good reason for not liking him!

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