Should I be her friend again?

Me and my ex best friend had a fight a wile back she said she wanted cooler friends but that just meant the ones that got in trouble all the time anyway they finally kicked her out of ther group said she wasn’t cool enough now she wants to b friends with me and my other friends should I forgive her

Answer #1

what I would do is be her friend again, just please, watch ya back, been there done that

Answer #2

well you should tell her that being their friend might not turn out so good because therer is somone new for them to blam it on and they proberly will treat her like dirt. so if she really is your friend she will come back.

Answer #3

You should be friends with her again, but just watch out for her. No one is your REAL friend. People would like to think they have real friends, but they don’t Most people are not real friends themselves even though they expect they’re friends to be loyal, they themselves really aren’t. Just let her know, you’d never do that to her and that she’d better realize what he true deffinition of ‘cool’ is.

Answer #4

for a starter if shee was your real friend she wouldnt have made the mistake of dumping you as a friend in the first place, but sometimes people make mistakes. and that is where you forgive and forget.<<< pmsl cheesey or whaa. =L I say I go up to the girl givee her a hug and forget itt, if she says sorry likee, youu should bee all ‘ okaay babes I forgivee youu’ because shee can’t exactly changee back timee can shee noww?? ivee had a few tiffs with my buddies likee thatt and I was all “ow, you know I happen to havee feelingss” it’s all okaay now thoughh because I hate to see a sad facee , so youu should too XD hopee everythingg turnss out okaay xx

Answer #5

First of all I don’t think that you should give this girl a second chance to prove herself. If she is willing to throw you aside because some “cool” kids wanted her to be in their little “group” then she will have no problem doing it again in another similar situation. I am not saying be mean to this girl, just keep her at a distance. You can never be too careful with people like this. They are only concerned about themselves that other peoples feeling do not matter. You need a friend who is not only going to care about themselves, but you as well. You can’t trust a person who is going to be your best friend one moment and then turn around and dis you because you aren’t “cool” enough. Who says that you aren’t “cool”?? Because you aren’t exactly like a group of people that think they are so much better than the rest of the world. Keep your head up, and tell this person that you forgive them, but you cannot put yourself back in that kind of situation. That you will always be there as a friend, but not a “best” friend.

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