Who is with their partner for 9months and nt say I love you?

I’ve been with my partner for 9 months now and I’ve told him time and time again that I love him. He doesn’t seem threatened by it, but he has never said it back…Should I lose hope of us lasting? I mean, he comes across as a tough type of guy, but I know he’s a softy due to his past relationship…I just don’t know what’s going on! Guys? Your opinions will help!!!

Answer #1

Men and boys in general aren’t too into communicating their true feelings, esp when it comes to love. Instead, they’d show it through action, like taking care of you when you’re sick, (even dressing you lol) taking you home to meet their family, calling you all the time, and getting ticked off when they hear another guy is ‘messing with you’-all signs that they want you to be their’s and no one elses.

Ask yourself these questions: has he done nice things for you time and time again, like the following? Has he maybe gotten hurt in any of his previous relationships? If you know that he has gotten hurt, he would’ve probably backed away from serious relationships for some time, and grew apprehensive of telling you his true feelings.

Also, does he look into your eyes a lot, with that ‘glowy’ look? If so he is most likely thinking something. The fact that he is a tough guy says it all as well. Such guys are most likely to ‘show, not tell’ their emotions. A lot of those guys even hide their love for a good year or so into the relationship, so don’t be worried.

As girls, we often expect a lot from our bfs, so maybe don’t say it for a while, just show it, I.e., letting him watch the football/soccer, preparing a nice meal for him, or even giving him a nice massage.

Hope I helped ;)

Answer #2

No my roommates girlfriend was the same way, he fell in love with her really fast (6 months) and then a few more months went by and he said I love you one day not expecting it back because he was use to it but always wanted her to be sure how he felt and surprisingly she said it back and ever since then they have been so good like they just started dating again with all the lovey-dovey stuff!

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