Who here can help me with my bizarre love triangle?

Ok here’s my story. Back in September…I met this guy on a social site, in the army, claims he has a certain sum of money, said he was willing to pay off my car, get us a house, and give us a life together. We never met. Said he instantly fell in love with me, …blah blah etc. We kind of lost contact because it seems whenever I went to IM him he either didn’t respond, or said brb and never returned. Also I would find little status’s and things that gave me a few doubts about him, plus he smokes, and drinks, and seems like a player. Came November a week before Thanksgiving, I met this other guy on a dating site that I was still connected with. He’s a COP, says He owns a certain sum of money as well, and ALSO says he’s willing to do the car and house thing with us. Within TWO days he instantly fell in love with me, instantly talked about marriage. The cons of THIS guy are was that he was playing mind games with me, and making me cry, (the other guy made me cry once but that’s cause it was the army in him cause he wanted to get out) anyways, and now he’s here in FL (he’s from NY), he has a kid, aaand I just…I don’t want anyone to get extremely hurt. I know I want a relationship, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt, and there are so many emotions runnin through my head. I need help. JERRYYY lol