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I have this best friend, and she is always gushing over how amazing of a photographer I am, but I took some senior photos for her and she was texting her ex-boyfriend saying how bad they were, while she was gushing to me about how much she loved them! This isn’t the first time she’s done this, either. She told him how she didn’t even want me to take them, but I really wanted her to, which is really complete opposite. She asked me to take them and kept saying how amazing I was and how she couldn’t wait. What should I do? Is someone like this worth keeping around as my “best friend?” should I confront her, or just leave it alone?

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Answer #1

So what you’re saying is that your best friend is someone who lies, demeans your work, and fabricates stories in order impress her ex or something of the sort, and has done this before?

Couple of questions.

What makes her your bestfriend?

If you do confront her what exactly do you want to tell her, what outcome are you expecting and what outcome are you hoping for?

If you dont confront her, what is going to happen down the road? Are you expecting things to change? If they dont change, are you willing to put up with it?

If you remain friends what would you like to see happen

If you dont have her as a friend, what do you think that will be like, what are the consequences?

Think about it…

Answer #2

well if I were you id confront her just go up to her and be like (her name ) I know you say you relle like my pictures I take but I found out that you relle dont like them I would still love to be your best friend but really you should have just told me that you didnt like them in the first place, I would have been ok with it but instead you didnt and it could have broken up our friendship. :D

Hope this helps Much love Taylorr.

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