When to know the guy I like is a complete douche?

I can relate to your problem at some point as I’ve been in the same situation a few times.

It kinda sounds to me like he is forcing something on between you, n’ I’d suggest you’d take it a bit more slow in your own pace untill you feel more secure about him. You said you’ve just met him recently, but over the internet you got to be careful nonetheless.

I’d wait a very good while about meeting him if I were you, specially cause you feel scared to meet him.

I gotta be honest with you n’ say I wouldn’t have sended him the photo, cause he asked for it several times. It seems a bit desperate, and when you didn’t feel comfortable about it either, you should have told him that. If you had already, then I’d suggest you listen to your own feelings in the future when you’re uncomfortable about something he asks of you.

It’s not weird at all that you think that way… it’s perfectly normal, and it’s a way of thinking you should listen to.

But as hiyall1 said… not every guy is a douche bag, so if he is one, then just look around some more… am sure there are many guys who’d wanna get to know you.

I am sorry if it sounded judging or rude in any way… but I hope at least you could use some of it :)