When should I move to the next level with my girl friend?

Im 14 years old and I have made out with my girlfriend within the first week of dating and we’ve been dating for about 3 weeks now. When should I got to the next level? Im at 1 so far. (1-Making out, kissing, cudling, etc. 2nd-feeling a girl up, touching outside the clothes 3rd-oral, eating a girl out)

Answer #1

OK who in the world sed anything about homerun??? Im tawking about when in the relationship should I move on? im not saying I want to as soon as possible! I know itll take longer than just 3 weeks and many months, but im asking about when should I? and no, im not in it for the physical part, my last girlfriend I dated for 6months and she broke up with me on christmas night.

Answer #2

y doz everyone think im a horny pervert JUST because I wanted to know when to go to step two with my girlfriend? I was tawking about how many months/years, not how fast. god wut retards

Answer #3

ok, anelfire is a dumba**. she doznt know what I meant and at this rate, I dont think she ever will. god your stupid. ill keep you updated till we break up if you dont believe me. how bout that?

Answer #4

You should wait a little bit longer to make it special. Losing your virginity isn’t something that you will forget so make it special for her and wait for awhile. Don’t rush things.

Melinda

Answer #5

Why dont you just take it ONE DAY AT A TIME! Dont worry about when it should all happen. When the time is right, it will!

Learn from your last relationship about why your ex broke up with you.

Stages in a healthy relationship look like this: Attraction toward one another Friendship Dating Taking things slowly Getting to really know one another’s likes and dislikes, values and value systems Getting to know each other’s friends and family Getting to know each other’s interests. Do you have enough in common by now to see if the relationship grows further? If so, continue to take things slowly:

No sex! Remember, having sex with dating partners is not practicing for marriage, it is practicing for divorce. Enjoy minimal physical touches: hand-holding, light kissing, arms around each other, hugs, looking into each others eyes. Enjoy the chemistry without the sex. (oral is sex)

Answer #6

There is NO time frame when things should happen. If your going to sit there and think about where you should be in your relationship everyday day, week or month, then you shouldnt be in one! Relationships take a LONG time to develop, but you being so young, wouldnt know that. Thats why young relationships dont last…because teens are in such a hurry to move on the the next level! If you dont want critisim, then watch how you ask questions. I’ve made out with my girlfriend within the first week of dating, and we’ve been dating for about 3 weeks now…When should I go to the next level? I’m at 1 so far >> Now how would you interpret all that? You were NOT talking about months/years! You were talking WEEKS!

Answer #7

Dude, you are seriously too young. I’m not saying you dont know what love is, but you are just horny. You don’t know sh#t about sex. And you shouldn’t until you are at least 16. And the ‘step’ system is so yesterday. But You don’t need to go past step 2. other than that, have fun feeling each other up.

Answer #8

Sounds like your only in a relationship for the physical part of it. A relationship isnt about how fast you can get to a base. Have some respect for your girlfriend! Its only been 3 weeks. You dont care about her, or even like her, if all you care about is hitting a home run! Spend time getting to know her on a social level, and forget about getting physical, until your old enough to know how to treat a girl!

Answer #9

I know exactly what you meant. Your just trying to cover your tracks now. Everyone that answered, all said basically the same thing.

Answer #10

proberly a few months…3-4-5 sommin like that mate

she will give you signs every girl does : )

Answer #11

How about you ask her when she’s ready? Even though you seem a bit young to be thinking about those things.

Answer #12

Well they didnt understand what exactly I meant. Ill let you know when that happens to prove it to you if you dont believe me. retard.

Answer #13

whoa, did I put this under a no-name or something???

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