When should I ask her?

just try to help her through the break up and after a lil bit when she wants to start having a relationship tell her how you feel about her that way you don’t pressure or even maybe annoy her because that can happen I hope everything works out:)

I think best advice I can think of is not to to pressure her just be that best friend she needs tell her how much you care about her and that you will be willing to wait a very long time until she is ready so she knows and update us (if you choose to take my advice) x gd luck x

thanks for the advice. I told her that I am ok with her not wanting to be with me at the moment. I told her that I know that she does not need a relationship right now and that she needs a friend to be there for her. I said that I will be that friend.

hopefully we can get together sometime in the future.

when she told me that we should just be friends, I broke down. at home I cried for a really long time and couldnt eat nor sleep. the very next day I realized that I was thinking the wrong way about the situation. I wanted her for myself and then I started to think what will make her happy. thinking about her current relationship and how its going to end soon, im sad because shes going to go through a hard time and I want to be there for her. but knowing that she wanted to break up with me and I accepted that fact made me feel…ok.

im serious though, just yesterday I wanted to commit suicide but today im a whole new person.

did I move on? am I in denial? am I just a happy person?

or am I just happy because shes happy that she has one less issue to deal with..

iono its confusing.