When having sex is it normaly for the lad to cum within minuits?

weve been together for a while now and it always happens .. should I get him to give me more pleasure before sex ? its just getting so annoying ..

No if it’s his first time ok or first few times but if you done it for a while then he needs help make him pleasure you orally by eating you out an then real sex. Funmail me to talk bout it I’ve had this prob before

Yes, it’s normal especially when you having sex with someone that you actually love.

It’s unfortunate but most guys to come in minutes. I heard some where (I’m sorry I can recall at the moment where I heard this) that the average guy will come within 5 minutes of continued stimulation. There are ways for a guy to increase his performance time. One of the best ways is for him to masturbate and just before he comes he should stop before climaxing and allow himself to calm down and then once he is calmed, maybe after a few minutes and he might even lose his erection a little, he should continue and repeat the process. This will help in the bed. A great thing that you can do is help him with this task by using your hands or mouth. The sad thing is that he will need to be used to your body before he can perform at his best. Not to mention he will love it. Take my advice here; don’t make it a training session. Make it erotic and sensual.

I used to have this problem too. I averaged about 10 minutes and then I couldn’t go any longer. But after working with it with my girl at the time my performance increase substantially. Whereas I would only be good for one go around a night at about 10 minutes I can now go for 30-45 minutes before climaxing and I can do this 2-3 times a night. I have essentially trained myself to be able to have multiple orgasms. I didn’t think it was something possible as a teenager but now that I’m in my 20’s I know it is. My pleasure is increased and more intense and I get to go longer in the night. Try it with him. It worked for me.

Also, you may want to consider yourself in the equation. You need to show him what you like and what you want done to you and what you want to do to him. Men aren’t mind readers and we don’t know until you show us. Most guys (as far as I know) are willing to meet most requests because they know it means more hay time if they do.

You will also need to consider his penis size. Some positions are better suited for smaller guys and likewise there are positions better suited for larger guys. If he is smaller, then girl on top is a great position if you’re looking for deeper penetration. Also doggy can be a good position if he has a medium sized penis. A small penis will work too if you don’t have a super large badonkadonk(no offense!).

Also, women on average need much more stimulation than men and its not always just about deep penetration. I find that most women like a mixture of shallow strokes and deep strokes. Some women care more about external stimulation than penetration all together.

If you know (and I’m sure you do) where your g-spot is then show him. If he is inexperienced then he may not know where it is. Doggy and Reversed Cowgirl will hit the g-spot pretty well. A couple fingers or vibrator will hit it too!Personally I don’t like using a vibrator with a girl because it seems to desensitize the girl making it harder for her to climax over time.

Remember sex isn’t about being pleased alone. You have to know how to give and receive. As your relationship grows so can your sexual activities. Don’t limit your selves to just in and out one and done. Explore each other. Tease each other sexually. It’s all part of the game that makes it even more fun to play.