When do you know that a guy is serious?

I am really confused…. guys are good in hiding what they feel, But they ARE BETTER in FOOLING around…. I don’t know if a guy is serious when it comes to courting, or you know, anything that deals with LOVE and commitment, and even Faithfulness… am starting to think that out of 10, only one guy is man enough to be really sincere… argh!!! someone help.. give sum tips… thank you

Answer #1

Dear kristel, A lot depends on age…Younger guys are not looking for commitments and why should they. There is a whole world and life out there and plenty of fish in the sea. That’s how the male brain is hardwired. As females we all know (most) mature earlier and look for commitments, faithfulness and emotional attachments. This is the worlds dilemma…men and women don’t think alike. So if you are looking for a Mr. Right…the key is to wait till the men catch up. So go on with school, college, careers and then by that time we are self-sufficient and don’t rely on anyone to define us…we then can make some very good observations and choices not only in men but in life. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

I agree! its frustrating trying to find a good guy that you can trust and put your guard down with, but they are out there! you just have to be patient in finding one and when you do and he has proved to you that he is worth it you will realise he is the one you have been looking for, the one who will drop everything to be there for you. He’ll prove himself over time, in the meantime dont waste your time on losers who use you! as soon as you get that 1st sign of him being a jerk kick him to the curb!

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