Whats the difference between fucking and making love?

Making love and fucking are both terms for sex… But making love is usually with someone you really care about and it’s a more romantic term. Fvcking is more of a slang word and it sounds more crude than making love. It’s kind of disrespectful too.

Making love is when the two people have feelings for each other and care for one another and, I think, is a way to show one another’s feelings physically. Fucking is, well, more crude, a hook-up or just sex void of the intention to show a person’s feelings through a physical means.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not your woo-woo stereotype but I think making love is intimately bonding with someone from a place of ‘love’ and ‘affection’ and a place of positive passion where you are also physically expressing your emotions to the person through means of intimacy. (If you are doing it mechanically like a robot without feelings, you’re doing it wrong)

The ‘f - word’ action on the other hand, is having sex driven by ‘lust’, where there is no bonding and no emotions. It’s just mechanically ‘mastur*ng’ yet, doing so with another person you couldn’t care less about.

Both are forms of having sex, both are the same actions if you judge by surface level observation - but what makes both of these radically different from each other is the place the individual performing the action is coming from while doing so.

If he is coming from a place of ‘love’ and the physical expression of affection for his partner, he’s ‘making love’ and if he’s coming from the place of ‘lust’ just to be ‘getting laid’ he’s doing the ‘f-word’ action.

–Andrew