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Like .. what should she have & what should she look like ?
Well... From what I'm getting out of your question is two things. 1) you're honestly wondering what ALL guys want in a girl, or 2) you're wondering why you may not be that dream girl that a certain guy wants. Trust me on this; you can change as much as you can possibly change to make a guy date you, but I promise you that you will not be happy about it. This guy may be right for you (in your mind) but you aren't right for him. You need someone who is right for you, and you have to be right for him. Do not change. I promise you that the more you act yourself, the more likely it will be that you will find someone who will be much more than you could ever wish for. The only reason why girls want guys that don't seem to like them is because girls have been conformed (or lead to believe) that if they act themselves, they will never get a guy. When they have a guy in mind, for some reason no other guy really matters. A girl will try to get with a certain guy because they think that this guy can be the one that they want. If you dig a little deeper, girls will go for a guy because deep down, they think they aren't good enough to have someone come to them, so they tend to go to the guy. They will try anything to be with this guy, and odds are, it wont work out. Then the girl will start to wonder why it didn't work out. And they will start to think that they 'aren't good enough'. Honestly, that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. How can anyone say that who they are and who they like to be is not good enough? If you are happy with who you are only because you do the things you like, then there is nothing wrong with that. To answer your main question, there is no answer to your question. I'm not sure of the exact number, but I'm going to take a guess that there are 4 billion males on this planet. That means that there are another 4 billion different dream girls for that 1 guy. You don't have to become a dream girl for some other guy. You are already a dream girl for the right guy. Just wait for him to come. He will find you. For now, just have fun, and do the things that girls love to do lol. I hope that I helped! :)
