I keep fooling myself that looks arnt important but everyday its obvious to me that they are. this is pretty much why o havent really paid attention to the gym or other things.
what do you think
Well, my grandmother always told me that "pretty is, as pretty does". A truly beautiful girl can be the biggest b*** on earth and most people won't truly like her.
That said, unfortunately too much emphasis is placed on physical beauty today. But, in a sense part of it makes sense. If a extremely gifte singer (let's say Rihanna) looked like a female version of Flavo Flav (oversized clock necklace and all) the record company PROBABLY wouldn't make as much money off of her as they do now. I've always wondered how it always happened to be that people who were extremely talented (singer.dancer,actor/ actress,etc) are ALMOST ALWAYS (again, may I refer to Flavo Flav) extremely attractive as well??! Coincidence, or does God do this on purpose! HMMM...
Now. Let's look at comedians...another hmmm. Another coincidence. That the large majority of comedians are either not extremely attractive, with some exceptions (chelsey Handler, Ellen D. Is okay, but tries to be to "manly" looking) then the others. (Can we say...carrottop?)
Unfortunately, this is a part of life. The only thing we can do, for those of us who do not look like Amber Smith or JLo.. Or Chris Brown(who isn't looking too good to me right now anyway) or Brad Jolie...oh sorry, Pitt. All we can truly do is make our insides--the part that really counts anyway, our hearts and personality, as beautiful as those with the "perfect" outsides.
You are beautiful, put your pic up with your profille and be proud!! ( I can't because I'm using my Blackberry and it won't let me...yet.)
Stand up and be proud, feel proud!!
Looks are important to some extent.
Personality is key, but the way you carry yourself shows a lot. If your ignoring gym and such because you don't care what you look like..then other people aren't going to care about you. Now, thats not saying care more about yourself than others. No, its saying that you should treat yourself well, but still put others first.
I think this should of helped, I wasn't really sure where you were getting at with your question.
Lying to yourself is where the problem starts. Personality is the most important, looks come along with it. What you make of yourself (looks) show's what kind of person you are. Just be cool and don't let yourself go (ugly) lol.