what would you do in this situation ?

ok well today I went to a wedding and I went behinds my friends back .. she considers me her best friend.. but I times I just need space from her .. you know ? so she called me over 20 times .. and I answered NONE!!! she is acting like she is my girlfriend or somethin .. and well im NOT!!! I dont roll that way lol .. and well now she is cryin.. I really dont know why .. I did nothin wrong .. its not like we are datin or anythin .. and she called my house phone .. called the rest of my friends as well .. I mean .. cant I get my SPACE!!! what should I do ? should I call her and fix it .. or just leave it … I did nothin wrong .. ???

any advice would help thanks ..

Answer #1

call her and tell her you need space

Answer #2

wow, sounds like she is smothering you. dont just drop her that could hurt the relationship horribly, try telling her the truth. tell her in a nice way though. try saying something like, “Im going to take some time to myself for a while. You know, to relax and get away from all the stress. I dont even want to be on the phone much for a while.” she should take the hint and stop calling you 24/7. hope that helps.

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