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What would you do if you were in this situation?

Back in septemeber me and my ex had an accident. [apparently he wasnt my ex at the time] I got pregnant and I was going to keep it, I was 16 at the time, but wasnt in school so that wasnt a problem. I was so scared and my boyfriend was supportive of whatever I wanted and I really wanted to keep it or at least put it up for adoption because I am totally against abortion, but I ended up getting an abortion which I still regret to this day. Me and my boyfriend obviously didnt work out, but I have the feeling that we would have if I had kept the baby. I would be 5 months pregnant right now if it werent for the abortion. And I wish I could go back in time so bad. It sucks.

What would you do?

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Answer #1

You are using your pregnancy as an excuse for your relationship ending. For one thing, alcohol is NOT an excuse for cheating. You were, and still are young, and even if you would have kept the baby, that doesnt mean your relationship wouldnt have dissolved one way or another.

Answer #2

If he was supportive of whatever your choice was, then either the abortion wasn’t the problem, OR your boyfriend had some other problem with the relationship.

You didn’t give a reason why the relationship didn’t work out. Was he the one who initiated the breakup? Did he give a reason? There are so many factors that can affect a relationship, so it really could be anything.

If it were up to statistics, he’d be more likely to leave you if you kept the baby.

You made your choices to the best of your ability, given the circumstances. At least he didn’t leave you to care for a baby alone, or to go through a pregnancy alone.

Answer #3

we broke up because I got really drunk on halloween and had sex with his brother.

which would have never happened if I were pregnant.

Answer #4

I would of kept it and put it up for adoption thats the right thing to do and I think that just one mistake shouldent effect a relationship that much

srry if that didnt halp at all

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