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What will my boyfriend do?

Hey people So I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost 3 weeks yes I know not very long..anyways I have liked him for a long time and he finally payed attention to me but I cant eat infront of him for some reason I feel like a pig if I eat a peice of pizza so I just usually get a chocolate milk and I have lost some weight..he told me one day that he doesnt like fat girls wich made me a little mad but then he would laugh so I didnt know if he was joking or not..so I dont want to gain weight and him not like me being bigger..so then the whole physical part of it all ..I have done stuff with a guy that im totally not proud of but I still have my verginity wich I am proud of because most girls just dont care anymore..so my boyfriend wants to take it a bit further then just making out and he has had experience he is 2 years older then me and lost his v-card..but I dont know if im ready to let a guy I have dated for not even 3 weeks do stuff with me because if anyone especially my older brother were to find out I would feel so bad..and I hate when my mom says she is so proud of me for not doing any of that stuff then I actually have done sum stuff so I just dont know what to do anymore :(

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Answer #1

yah girlll its me.. lol I would eat infront of him.. dont want my bff going anorexic on me now.. and I want you to be happy with him.. if he doesn;t like what you have to offer then obviously he doesn’t want you that bad.. Hope all goes well my dear..

keep me posted!

Answer #2

lol hells to the yah you’ll see me tomorrow.. lol woot woot :)

Answer #3

Ell: Do not let him go further with you after only three weeks. Tell him that you want to wait and you are not that easy. If he is anything that you want to be with, he’ll understand 100% and not ask again for a bit. Don’t let a guy pressure you into doing stuff that you don’t want to do. That is your body and he should respect that. If he doesn’t, he isn’t worth your time.

Answer #4

I suggest you wait. And about the eating thing, you should be able to be yourself. If you’re worried about your weight, you can eat other things. If he says something, well.. isn’t he the one who looks at the physical? Besides I’m sure you’re perfectly fine. Just be yourself and be firm for what you believe in. Who loves you more… him or you and your family? I’m sure you know the answer to that. So if you know you will feel weird after you do stuff with him, then don’t do it. You’re the one who will have to deal with the guilt, not him. Hopefully it all goes well sweetie :)

Answer #5

my suggestion… get a new man. hun if he cant accept you for who you are then he is not worth it. dont waist your time. he needs to know that you havefeelings too. go ahead and eat in front of him and if he doesnt like it too bad. break up with him then and there. im sorry I know itll be hard because you like him for so long but this will be best for u. if you cant even eat in front of him which is a natural part of life you need to find someone else hope I helped and if you need n=more help funmail me ~kaitlyn~

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